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  1. A spanking fantasy I've had for a couple of years. Started when I was about 17 if I remember my age right. Me and my girlfriend at the time where playing on my ping pong table when she told me if she lost I could give her a spanking with the ping pong paddle. Anycase that didn't happen we changed it to a stripping game instead and that was it. But I've often fantasized about that night and taking her hand as I pullled her over my lap and teasing her with the paddle before I made her bottom red and then kissing it better I would have taking her in my arms and cuddled with her. And feeling
  2. That makes a lot of sense. Thank you. I would say it's a kink for me to then. Because it's definitely doesn't replace sex. Which I can completely enjoy without it. But at the same time it can make sex so much more. I think a big part for me will be turning on the woman with a spanking
  3. @Bramblewinethank you, I will watch them. Can I ask you as you say you are in it for the fetish experience, exactly what part gives you pleasure and in what way? Feel free not to answer if it's to personal 🙂
  4. @Bramblewinethank you for lovely response. It's nice to understand that there is that side to it as well. I was starting to think I was the only one, who came from that angle. Glad to see I'm not alone, from the other side of the equation.
  5. I don't know if I can do this. As I said somewhere else, I'm very, very new to spanking. And for the first time ever, I roll played with someone. Which was both more exciting then I would have ever imagined, to finally share in a secret I've had for many years. But also conflicting for myself. I just wanted them to feel good, I wanted to do it how they would enjoy it. I wanted to make them feel cared about and safe. I couldn't enjoy it without knowing that it was important to them, without knowing what they wanted in that moment, there was no enjoyment for me.
  6. Spanking someone seems a lot more intimate then sex in some ways. There you have someone giving up control to you (or at least the allusion of it) Where with sex you both have control in a way. Though that too depends on your partner to a degree. In my own mind and heart, I want to say I wouldn't just sleep with someone I've just met, but time and time again, I have. It just feels easier to share that with someone, there is the attraction or chemistry and it's normal right? But the idea of spanking someone, that comes from a lot of trust. I don't think I would l
  7. Thank you @Bramblewine, I see what you mean. I think it would be the same for me. Though I don't know about spanking someone I wasn't in a relationship with. Though maybe if I get the chance to really know someone first 🤔 When I was a little younger, I remember playing ping pong with a woman I was seeing and we started betting clothes when she said that if I won I could spank her. I remember being very excited about this. Alas we never finished the game I think that's the play and the pleasure, well that speaks for itself. Thank you for sharing.
  8. @Bramblewinethank you for sharing. It's nice to know that I'm not alone. I was wondering if you could explain the difference between play and pleasure.?
  9. Thank you for the welcome and most definitely thank you for commenting on my writing. Its long being a passion and I hope to one day attend Oxford University for an English degree. 🤞 Would I be over stepping my introduction if I spoke a little more? I've being looking around the forum and learning a little more. For as I said in my previous post, this is the first time, I've ever giving considerable thoughts on revealing this part of me. And as such, I've learned a lot more reading about other experiences spanking on this forum. Please in no way feel obliged to rea
  10. Hello 🙂 I hope nobody minds me posting here. This is actually the first time I've ever thought about speaking about this. I'm 29 years old and I've always fantasized about spanking a female. I'm not sure sure exactly when the thoughts first strarted. My earliest memory was being at a hairdresser and seeing a beautiful woman having her hair washed. She was being pampared but at the same she had giving up control and was being completely looked after by this man. To my young mind that was completely erotic and arousing. And I remem
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