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Aftercare is important. The point is to not only heal the skin but also provide care to the person who was just spanked. Personally, I have heard of a variety of different things used as aftercare, which may include lotion to the area, hugs, cuddles, or even just sitting in silence while the person composes themselves. While I control the spanking, i think it's important for the spankee to tell you what works best for them to make them feel cared for etc. hope this helps

While I am on the other side of things, I have often felt that it would be more embarassing w them coming down. I usually pull em down for the person while making them maintain eye contact. Fewer things I can see as more humbling than a grown woman being bared to ultimately be spanked. Just me though. There's no right or wrong:)