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  1. I'm not really interested in a semantics "debate" or hearing about how the DSM defines reality and all its categories are the most adaptive to use etc. My definitions are clear and not confusing enough that I think everyone gets what I mean when I say "fetish" as opposed to any other word. Saying "acksually fetish referrs to objects and paraphilia to behaviors but nonadaptive gender attractions are in a special category because the news said so and you must want to offend gay people even though you're literally a male sub on a fetish forum if you don't except this wacky and arbitrary concept scheme" just doesn't accomplish anything. Ok on the other thing you wrote it looks like you have two points: 1. heritability is hard to measure because you dont talk about this stuff with family and 2. predisposition can be genetically caused but not the fetish itself (correct me if I misunderstand what you said, I'm trying to resolve the apparent contradiction of "there are no fetish genes but genes can cause fetishes") As to point 1, I would like to point out that a heritability study would use twins and survey each independently so this isn't a problem empirically. As for anecdotes, yes of course family doesn't talk a lot. If I got what you're saying in point 2 then I guess I kind of agree. I don't think there's enough data to conclude what you say these articles have concluded. In reality, like with homosexuality, there is probably both spankos who got into it through porn and a predisposition and those who required no porn. In other words there are degrees of predisposition ranging from slight to heavy to the extent that there is no way for the person to not like spanking no matter how much they try to ignore it. Given it's a quantitative trait, it is heritable to some degree, and testimonies on here are true I'd place my bets on the above.
  2. Sorry I'm using it to be synonymous with the word paraphilia as it is used in every day life
  3. Look up "meiosis" and "polygenetic traits" I define a fetish as anything but reproductive eroticism
  4. I think it's partially caused by genes in a lot of people. We know genes can cause other types of fetishes like homosexuality (heritability ~ .45). It seems on here a lot of people report early "fascination" with spanking and not necessarily having been spanked very young. While I haven't found data on this it seems from the testimonials here that early exposure or trauma does not cause most spanking fetishes. Furthermore other traumatizing things are generally not fetishized such as bugs, disease, the dark, etc. The interesting question however, if I am right, is why are there genes in the gene pool that predispose or cause a spanking fetish? Anyone want to debate on this?
  5. Chronic pain means some form of pain that persists for a long period of time, generally for more than a week or a month, with little to no reprieve.
  6. Interested in trying to form an in depth relationship, platonic, that possibly escaltes to cohabitation for some period of time (could he short at first, a few days, then maybe a month depending on location -- I'm in college). I'd like some help working through my feelings on spanking. Message me and we can talk if you're interested and want to know more. Also message me if you would like to talk about some of these feelings online. Just be clear if what you want
  7. Interested in trying to form an in depth relationship, platonic, that possibly escaltes to cohabitation for some period of time (could he short at first, a few days, then maybe a month depending on location -- I'm in college). I'd like some help working through my feelings on spanking. Message me and we can talk if you're interested and want to know more. Also message me if you would like to talk about some of these feelings online. Just be clear if what you want
  8. Interested in trying to form an in depth relationship, platonic, that possibly escaltes to cohabitation for some period of time (could he short at first, a few days, then maybe a month depending on location -- I'm in college). I'd like some help working through my feelings on spanking. Message me and we can talk if you're interested and want to know more. Also message me if you would like to talk about some of these feelings online. Just be clear if what you want.
  9. I think it'd be interesting to nonsexually cohabitate and act as a young adult son for a spanker for some period if time, maybe just a week. Does anybody have any experience with doing this?
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