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  1. Those definitely pack a huge punch. No doubt an effective one. I have a plastic one that everyone says is the worst thing ever
  2. I know, it was just funny how you said it. I can tell you are definitely not a fan of that brush, specifically.
  3. Trying to get a consensus for another conversation I’m having. So Er’s what’s your favorite punishment spanking implement. Be as specific as possible. As for the ee’s what’s your most hated implement to be punished with. For me I like the razor strop from the London tanner collection. It’s a woman’s worst nightmare!
  4. @Summer For those that aren’t a fan of collars just use rope. If you google Shibari handcuffs there is several variations. all the variations have left over rope, this can be used to tie her off to something and is more universal than cuffs are (depending on accessories etc) just make sure you have a very good pair of scissors handy. It sucks when it’s late and power goes out from an earthquake you haven’t felt yet but will. (Been there) Not all women are comfortable wearing the collar part, some love it. Knowing a few backup plans goes along way.
  5. If it turns into a habitual thing, get some bondage cuffs. Soft ones though nothing like handcuffs metal etc. than you can either- a- just hook her hands together b- get a collar to and put it on them and hook there hands to it. Just remember she can’t catch herself so have to be in complete control of her until her hands are free. C- hook her hands around the chair leg etc. works like a charm plus it kind of trains them to keep hands in front of her etc.
  6. The way I do the whole online thing is to disclose it in the profile upfront. That way anyone who reaches out is aware of it from the start. I do agree with @rubyredd though. We really are better off running with our own crowd. Plus if your watching a show and have friends over etc and she starts being mouthy or whatever, it’s no big deal if you take her in the bedroom for a few minutes. Nobody even bats an eye, whereas if you had vanilla people around they tend to panic and run.
  7. I totally agree. Just get a really nasty rubber strap or small lexan paddle. Timeliness is one of my big pet peeves. Make me late your ass won’t feel so great.
  8. Sounds to me like a extreme level of bratting. I would take the punishment up a very significant notch, even possibly get a much worse implement, as well as take secondary punishments up a significantly large amount.
  9. It’s cool @Zhal. I’ve personally only ever met one woman that had a diaper fetish. Think onesie, binky, diapers, baby bottles, pigtails, stuffed animals, crayons and coloring books, even a crib and changing table. the works. No shit. Personally for me, I tend to lean more towards the middles/bigs. I like to actually develop a certain level of respect for one another. I personally struggled a lot, like WTF am I doing type of struggle. Reason being is I don’t know how to take a person in that stage of their journey to where they need to be, in order for the relationship
  10. Unfortunately for me and the state I live in, I have been directly kink-shamed for a long time. It was actually a pretty funny mistake. I know the Er’s will understand the moment, even the EE’s might have it as a fantasy, for the record it wasn’t one of hers. I was attending a local school here called UVSC, around the time I was 19. I lived in a four plex unit across town by the local hospital and rode the 862 uta bus several times a day. I was in a ddlg relationship with another 19 year old female “little.” Literally a live in music major.
  11. New profile pic! Love it!

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    2. Topspanker

      Topspanker

      It’s a great one! Suits you well it appears 😉

    3. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      I am so good that I haven't had to kneel in the corner for months. 😊🙄

    4. Topspanker

      Topspanker

      Lol. I seriously doubt that 😉

  12. I agree completely. I tell every person I meet whether we meet in public or behind closed doors for first time- TRUST the bells and whistles. If something seems off, just not comfortable, not really sure anything - walk away-. Maybe ask more questions, etc. whatever you need. I usually chat online for quite a while, from there it usually transitions to a phone chat. Not texting etc but actually talking to one another. You have to remember that for anything to happen, you first have to consent to it. If your bells and whistles are going off for —ANY— reason, might need to r
  13. It took me about 6 months when I first started doing it. As a top we want to make the bottoms happy too. Not got to far, but always far enough. I found that I was usually all over the place. I wanted to be able to push her limits up to and including sub space with 100% accuracy, so I inevitably started paying more attention to what I was doing, with what, and how much force I was applying and was able to start figuring it out
  14. It took me about 6 months when I first started doing it. As a top we want to make the bottoms happy too. Not got to far, but always far enough. I found that I was usually all over the place. I wanted to be able to push her limits up to and including sub space with 100% accuracy, so I inevitably started paying more attention to what I was doing, with what, and how much force I was applying and was able to start figuring it out
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