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Topspanker

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Topspanker last won the day on August 30

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  1. @rubyredd nailed it. No Spanko no Date-oh. Whenever I “order out,” aka online dating etc, it is fully disclosed in ad etc. I cut straight to the chase, no sense in bull💩ing around. Im sure some look at it like hard pass, but you would be surprised at how many actually respond. How to ask for a spanking? If you got the nerve do it outright. If you don’t subtly can go a long ways if it’s —consistent—.
  2. I try to answer questions like this as specific as possible, different perspectives and information/approaches only makes others skill set grow bigger.
  3. I try to answer questions like this as specific as possible, different perspectives and information/approaches only makes others skill set grow bigger.
  4. Small lexan paddles are effective stingers, plastic hairbrushes are good options, the wooden ones if used lightly as well. keep in mind that it also depends on amount of force applied
  5. @Chawsee I did the iron palm for several years and it does work wonders but In theory arthritis is an inflammation of the joints. It could be possible that repeated hand spanking could cause it. However everyone hand spanks differently and I believe that’s main factor. If your a glance off mainly using fingers and joints than it could be highly likely to develop. I’m an entire hand person so it’s more equally distributed and I would surmise it wouldn’t. I was just pm’ing some one earlier and was telling them about how EE’s numbers skyrocketed during pandemic. i had met a few who had buns of steel bigtime fitness gals and after a daily spanking for each of them for almost a month my wrist and joints were clearly not happy and my hands are steel as well. I ended up having to revert to a strap for about a week and after almost 30 years of being an ER, that was a first for me. I literally couldn’t use my fingers and it wasn’t a muscle injury, the joints were grinding etc. so honestly in just my opinion I believe it could cause it.
  6. I love videos like this that show the humorous human side of the Spanko world. The way you’re both laughing says you have a very good relationship and genuinely have a connection. The blooper reels are always better than the actual movie in my opinion.
  7. As a guy I completely agree with it. I think if more husbands took more wives in hand it would solve a significant amount of issues. However consent still needs to be there or as @rubyredd points out it’s abuse. In some states even doing it with consent can still land you in handcuffs. For 90% it’s just a fantasy in reality though. In the 40’s and 50’s it was normal and from what I’ve been told, wives kind of expected it once they said “I do.” I challenge that and the numbers but it is what it is.
  8. As a guy I completely agree with it. I think if more husbands took more wives in hand it would solve a significant amount of issues. However consent still needs to be there or as @rubyredd points out it’s abuse. In some states even doing it with consent can still land you in handcuffs. For 90% it’s just a fantasy in reality though. In the 40’s and 50’s it was normal and from what I’ve been told, wives kind of expected it once they said “I do.” I challenge that and the numbers but it is what it is.
  9. I’m definitely down. I use ginger powder. Much Much more effective. I use it for brats that intentionally egg me on. Both pre-spanking and especially after. It will be there while she is waiting as well as after. Never had my arm worn out @rubyreddand @Megthe. Ever. 😈
  10. I think @CaliSpanker53 definitely has it on lock down, a guy does have two knees for a reason. However, one over the knee doing the squeal and spanking dance while the other waits her turn in the corner, naked as day she was born with her hands on her head would be more fun. 😈
  11. Your not kidding. I had an entire bag full of toys once going to Brazil and got popped by a customs search. They were not enthralled and had NO sense of humor about it either.
  12. I shop on Etsy if the seller has good reviews. Miss Chris Texas toys makes good ones. Her saddle cinch strap packs a wicked sting and awesome sound. London tanner shop online is excellent, and my main go too. they make beautifully crafted implements that are super effective. caneiac is ok but they seem to be higher priced than most other places. They do have a larger selection than most places however. I religiously don’t buy off eBay or Amazon. They always seem to fall apart sooner than competitors etc. I personally don’t own any canes, I do have a leather cane from London tanner, but that one makes her knees/legs give out by stroke 10 so it’s reserved for serious scenes only. I lean more towards leather paddles/straps/ and especially tawses. I don’t own a single piece of leather clothing, it’s just my preference to use those types.
  13. That made me laugh, first thing that popped into my head was Inspector gadget. My spankdar is damn near surgical. Just certain things you notice kind of give it away, the more involved you are in TTWD the stronger the spankdar skill set grows
  14. As soon as you meet them. It’s better if you do before you get attached to them as well! Some people get rejected outright over it, most boyfriends don’t seem to care, some are clueless like Peter in the secretary and may or may not partake in TTWD. with females it can be hit or miss. I hit it off pretty fast with a 30’s something cashier from a burger place down the street, soon as she found out yeah I’m blocked everywhere and she quit working there. Ive also met ones that as soon as they find out they strip faster than a person covered in spiders and break the couch diving over lap. No joke. It’s a roll of the dice really, better to yell Yahtzee in the beginning than risk a huge letdown later. ESPECIALLY if it’s a mandatory relationship dynamic you want.
  15. Welcome to the site!
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