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About jethrofloyd

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  • Birthday 11/04/1958

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    South Carolina
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  1. I didn't think most women would want corner time, but once I started seeing "strangers", I found the opposite to be true. I always get preliminaries out of the way when we have that public meeting to see if we want to continue, and without fail, the answer would be "Oh yeah--I'm a corner-time girl." I just assumed they'd rather use the time spent in the corner to prolong the spanking time!
  2. jethrofloyd

    Carolinas

    Upstate, near Inman
  3. "someone's going to get her panties set on fire", or "Somebody's gonna be sleeping on her stomach tonight."
  4. There have been a few times where I gave a lady a spanking, consenting of course, and presumably she had "accepted" that she needed it. I don't spend much time with this acceptance business; if she comes to me, I expect her to already have come to terms with the fact that she'll be soundly paddled and sitting carefully soon after. Nevertheless, the very first emotion that she showed was anger, She stood up, hands on hips and stood looking at me. She didn't say anything, and she faced the corner for a short time (I'm not into corner time, unless the spankee really wants that to be part of the experience.). The anger didn't last long---a couple of minutes perhaps. Then she said "I was really pissed there for a minute." When asked why, she said she didn't know. She knew she deserved it, and she wanted the spanking. And she WAS stressed and it relieved that. But she just sort of realized she was being treated like a child and suddenly it made her angry that she was going to be sleeping on her stomach that night, and she just focused that mad feeling on me. But it was over quickly and she hugged me, thanked me and assured me she wasn't really angry with me. "Blame it on hormones" was the last thing she said. I have spanked her regularly since that time so I guess it's not a common reaction.
  5. That gets back to trust. As a full-time spanker, I only give a definite number of swats or "licks" when recreating a school paddling (or something similar) where there was a defined punishment for various infractions and the spankee wants to relive it, or in some cases fulfill a fantasy concerning it. It's not easy to give up that level of power to someone else if you've known them well for many years, much less a disciplinarian one meets online. That's why I always meet the person--usually multiple times, in a public setting and discuss everything. Once we get to setting up a session, and the lady is across my reconstructed knee, I don't count, but I don't get caught up in the moment. I am fully aware of every twitch, moan, catch in her breath, and every shade pf color. More important than observation is of course, the limits laid down before the spanking ever starts. A woman knows better than anyone else what her pain limit is, and I know---some want a relationship with a spanker who will "push her boundaries". If that's their thing, God bless 'em--go for it. I am there to provide a service, and when the girl says the safe word, that ends the session. Or, if we have multiple words (green/yellow/red) where yellow is "it's almost more than I can take", then I slow down, or take the opportunity to remind her why she is over my lap, with her bottom on fire. Scolding can happen while delivering swats or during a pause, and still be effective. "Red" means she needs a breather. Some tell me they want to use it to let me know that they can't handle any harder or faster swats, so I try to stick to that pace. Others use it to let me know they'd prefer I not concentrate on a specific area. Women are remarkable at knowing their bodies. I can use a standard belt, and the sting is moderate but not unbearable, but a young lady told me once during a strapping "Oh, that'll leave a bruise". She didn't mind marks, but I didn't use much force and said "I didn't think the stroke was that hard." But sure enough, next morning her bottom had some marks but the most prominent bruise was where the belt wrapped around and caught her just above the sit spot. I'm sure a lot of folks will say this is allowing topping from the bottom (much as I dislike that phrase) or that it gives all the power to the spankee---no real "exchange" of power occurs. To this I say, "you're mighty well told it does!' Anyone who doesn't realize that ALL the power truly rests in the hands of the one who is getting his or her behind blistered is either deluded, a sadist, or lives where slavery is legal. And if the spanker DOESN'T know this, I suggest he have a very good attorney or keep careful records of correspondences, because if the spankee you are with utters the safe word and you decide in your infinite wisdom, that she can take more and deserves more punishment, you deserve whatever legal clusterf__k you get yourself into. Well, THAT certainly went off on a tangent I wasn't expecting Really I only meant to say that: 1. it's hard enough for anyone with a sense of independence to hand a cane, hairbrush, paddle, etc. over to another and give permission to wear her bottom out. So anyone who would suggest 900 swats with a wooden paddle has no more business with a paddle than a sociopath has with a gun. And 2: I DO think the spanker has an obligation to keep his or her wits and, for lack of a better word, remain stoic. You are responsible for how the spanking turns out, so be aware of everything---extreme squirming might be normal for some while others are fairly still. KNOW your spankee.
  6. Christian. I agree with parts of most mainline denomination, so I'm a Methopresbylutheropalian.
  7. Pink Floyd, Jethro Tull, King Crimson, Led Zeppelin, Emerson Lake and Palmer, Procul Harum, Yes, Deep Purple and more Pink Floyd. Same as it ever was....
  8. A person never gives up the right to say "no, I don't feel like it right now." A sub, bottom, spankee, or whatever classification one wants to place one's self is NOT required to submit to anyone unless he or she wants to. One can yield as much power to someone else as one wants, but you NEVER give up your right to call a halt to the proceedings.
  9. If you pick it, it'll never heal. Never swing at a 3-0ppitch. Nothing really matters, and so what if it did?
  10. Gravano comes the closest to answering this question the way that I would. With all due respect to Michael Masterson and other disciplinarians who "spank for punishment", it is STILL the spankee who calls the shots. Unless I woke up in a country where slavery is legal, spankers have NO power that their spankee doesn't give them. None. Zero. Nada. I spank, and it is solely non-sexual/sensual. Platonic service top, if one likes those clinical terms that are so often used to classify people. But, even when delivering a blistering spanking intended to be felt for days, there is always a safe word. And if you think a safe word isn't in order for a disciplinary/punishment spanking, then I would classify you a sadist. And if you find a masochist who doesn't mind giving up all her power to you, I hope the two of you are very happy. But relationships with that level of trust I find to be few and far between. The women I have spanked and have sessions with now are all bright, motivated, and full of spirit. They want to be spanked for all manner of reasons---punishment for texting while driving, using bad language, smoking, re-living a paddling in school or one they should have gotten. One young lady was banned from not one but TWO major bodies of water--taking a motorboat while underaged out at Myrtle Beach with a suitcase of beer and 5 friends, and operating an unsafe vessel out of Gulfport (they made a Huck-Finn raft and put a broken sail on it). She wasn't spanked for either at the time, but knew she deserved it, so I obliged. Some want the release we all know about. Tension + old-fashioned span king = catharsis. And lets face it, there are some that just want a spanking because they like pain. Nothing wrong with that. But whatever the reason, even those that visit the Nico's and the Masterson's and all the other pro's because they want to give up control, it is still and ever shall be up to the one getting her bottom blistered to decide when "enough" is. And excepting those rare couples who know each other so well that they can almost finish each other's thoughts, no spanker can be THAT good as to be able to know how much another person's nervous system, not to mention emotional state, can handle.
  11. I live in upstate South Carolina and have been fortunate over the years. Most of the girls I dated were into spanking to at least some degree, with one notably embarrassing exception. Anyway, there is an all-women's college in this burg, and anyone who lives within driving distance of the area has probably heard of it, and everyone else likely has not. Having visited there a lot while dating some of the coeds, MANY moons ago, I found that they have bulletin boards in each dorm and classroom building. People post cars for sale, tutoring help, requests for rides home for holidays, most anything on these boards and I began to ask myself, "Self? Could one post cards on these boards offering strictly disciplinary spankings, and not get arrested?" Granted, my experience comes from 30+ years ago, but I KNOW there were girls who attended this college who were very much into spanking. And while everything has gone digital, attaching a card with a push-pin to a cork board is very last century, but then, so am I. One would have to include either an address or more likely a phone number, and since I am concerned about whether this violates any laws, I wonder if I should break down and buy a cell phone. On "SVU" they talk about burner phones all the time, but I just want to be upfront about this, and see if there is a "market" for it. Preferably without getting a visit from the local constables. So, what do the experts think? Is this a valid way to meet spankos? Or should I stick with the information superhighway, a method that has worked, but isn't my favorite medium?
  12. Most girls I've spanked use icepacks afterwards, and a couple use a cream that is supposed to lessen bruising. But since most of them want marks, it's usually just ice and reassurance.
  13. When she feels better after the spanking than before, it's a good spanking. If she feels both better AND it met her expectations (chastised, punished, relieved of guilt or stress, is going to feel it for 5-6 days, brought to tears, has marks to remind her every time she looks in a mirror and bruises she feels every time she pull her panties up, or any combination she has requested) it's a very good spanking.
  14. I believe my experiences are far fewer than most posters, but from my perspective, the women I spank want marks. They expect them and amazingly, they know when a swat lands whether or not there will be a bruise, welt, etc. There are times when I've been asked to try not to leave marks (the dr. appt. thing) and most of them have been spanked enough to where they don't mark that easily. But there are some that marking simply can't be helped. And they understand.
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