Megthe

We just did ginger the first time a few weeks ago. Wowzers it was fantastic and I highly recommend it!

We do all sorts of Spanking. Erotic, funishment, maintenance, and discipline. The mindset of both parties is what REALLY makes the difference. I get turned in my by the thoughts and ideas of spanking, but I am not turned on during spankings that actually hurt if they aren't for erotic reasons, and sometimes even when they are lol. I love all tyoes of them though. We also don't have an issue With sex after a discipline spanking. For is it goes discipline, forgiveness and aftercare, theb sex usually follows the snuggling portion. After all, I am forgiven at that point and we are both rea

Exactly. It also lets him know I am at or near a limit. We put it in our agreement that I would try to stay in place abd if i break position I have a reasonable amount of time to get back in position. With particularly ouchy impliments he doesn't go super fast so he has time to react if i do move. The only time we have had an issue was one time I was slowly swinging my feet while laying flat on the bed. He lightly (thank god) swung the big paddle at tge same time I brought my foot up and he hit my heel. It didn't hurt that bad, but it made a Heck of a sound and scared the daylights out o

As an ee trying to cooperate, I will cross my arms under me and lay on my hands. That helps. During particularly bitey hits, like when the belt digs in, especially if it wrapped, I roll to the side for a second before putting my hand back. I make sure he knows I need a second before I reach back. Then I get back in position.

You can hold the hands for any short impliments. There is, of course, the option to tie the hands and possible anchor them to a hard point. Hubbs will sometimes tie my hands over head for standing position, or to the opposite side of whatever I am bent over.

Oh yeah, hubbs doesnt like to be spanked... If he did though I would let you have a crack at him if you both consented. 😄 woooohOhhhie! Thanks Chawsee! Spudster whaddya think?! @SpudStateSpanky

Haha! There is a sign for a new thrift store on the way to my moms house, called "Brand Spanking Used"... Totally going there to peep for impliments one of these days!

I agree with these 2... When I was in full sub frenzy I could get a discipline spanking and within an hour be playing around and trying to earn playful funishments. Then the craving for a full punishment spanking would come back in a week or two. And I was receiving nearly daily (multiple times a day even) funishments. I have mellowed a bit now, but I live with my spanker and am in a 24-7 D-s dynamic, so have had a lot of play. This means I am actively working not to exhaust him and to actually be a good sub. We also eliminated a lot of rules I struggled with because I wanted to know he

@Summer is banned for failing to i form is as to whether or not her 3yr old has an accent from so.much Peppa!

@Topspanker that totally makes sense. If you don't mind me asking, How long- or how many scenes do you figure it took you to develope your personal assessment technique? Not gonna lie, reading your response has my eager for Wednesday, when hubbs will eb off hand I can brat my way into a leg kicking, foot crossing good time! 😄

@Topspanker that totally makes sense. If you don't mind me asking, How long- or how many scenes do you figure it took you to develope your personal assessment technique? Not gonna lie, reading your response has my eager for Wednesday, when hubbs will eb off hand I can brat my way into a leg kicking, foot crossing good time! 😄

So specific! Thankyou! As a greedy repeated brat I can tell you, for me the foot thing is pretty accurate UNTIL the crossing part. That might be near my upper limit at that exact moment, but it doesn't nnecessarily mean I want the spanking to stop yet. Sometomes hubbs gets thats signal very early, but he also tends to forget a proper warm up. Then again, if you built it slowly and have a good warm up in, younare very probably right that they are about done. I also think bratty spankees are like eager puppies... Bring them towards their "training" or spanking limit but stop a bit short, l

Don't worry, you are invited also! 😘

Lol well... My hubbs would spank me, I would assume Chawsee would spank you, and then... I would be spanked my anyone that hubbs allowed, and I would spank anyone that hubbs allowed who gave their consent. 😂 And tandem spankings in all forms are double the the pleasure double the fun! Whether it be 2 Ers one ee, 2 ers and 2 ees, or one Er and two ee's!!

Aww now I want to have a bratty spanko vacation with you guys! Lol Could be so much fun! And lots and lots.of spanks! I know you guys aren't Into group play but I can dream on a whisp now amd again right? Btw, my phone kept turning whisp into whips. 😳😂