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  1. I quit drinking alcohol completely some time ago, but if I were to choose one beverage, that would be Baileys, such a nice sweet thing
  2. @CrystalDollyou gotta share your figging experience
  3. Hello everyone! God, this has been a weird year. Anyway, I talked to some people in the chatroom, and I appreciate their help massively. I decided to leave a post here for more people to see. My name is Katie, 25, from Russia. I have been self-spanking for over a year now. I also tried online discipline over this time and it seems to be working well for me. Unfortunately, I don't exactly feel comfortable over calls/videos. Here are some points about me. I tried to describe my needs and goals in detail for make it easier for people to reach out to me if they we are interested in the same things and they could help me. "An aspired self-spanko Submissive, somewhat curious about anal play. What I am looking for now is a special connection if you like. I have found it hard to dive into somewhat serious discipline, but I hope to find my way back there soon. My spanking options are limited as I'm living with my parents at the moment. I am looking for an older mentor who would inspire my discipline. I can spank my bottom with a USB cable late at night when I'm in bed and I can use my butt plugs as an additional means for discipline around that time too. Unfortunately, I only do emails and the chat on this site as I value my privacy a lot. Many people think that's not enough, and I respect their opinion, but this (writing) is the only level of intimacy I am currently ready to. Also, I was talking to some nice people here and they helped me word what I'm looking for: "a strict dad type to control and discipline me online long-term" I don't want to delete the rest of the text I wrote about myself earlier this year so I'll just leave it below this line. =================================================================================================== When I just started practicing self-spanking, I used online punishment generators. Soon I realized that althought those automatic punishments might be effective, it was hard to do them regularly, I lacked human contact. So when I first came to SN, all I was looking for was basically a human punishment generator. I am naturally very submissive and rather impulsive. When I like something, I am doing my best to enjoy it as much as I can. What I am still interested in might be called "random servitude" with a person who knows what implements I have and could give me spanking orders and other punishments for a particular day or with a chosen regularity. Mostly looking for spanking for stress-relief because I hardly misbehave (apart from procrastination), but I am willing to try being punished for imaginary offenses (spending all the money I was given on useless things and so on). I think mainly about spankings, but I do want to use my new set of butt plugs for punishment purposes. Oh, and I masturbate too much so that had to be taken under control too I have several implements, but can only use the USB cord for spankings now as it is the quietest implement I could find. In my possession, there is also - a rubber spatula (used it for pussy spankings when I masturbated without being allowed to), - wooden and plastic hairbrushes, - a long-handled bath brush (an all-time classic, as far as I can tell); - a short-handled bath brush (easier to use but just as stingy as the big one if not stingier), - a regular USB cord folded in a loop (find it stingy, but not bruising, which I appreciate), - a single cord (stingy than a folded cord, I imagine it feels closer to a cane). I have fixed most of the things that could be fixed via discipline myself now. I work out regularly, I have a job, I almost stopped slouching completely and so on. For privacy purposes, I only use email and this site for communication. Kik might be an option too Looking forward to discipline sessions and connecting with more like-minded people. Bottoms up! P.S. The spanking community is great, and it has been a pleasure to be a part of it so far. So many thanks for people who made this site once again
  4. I practice self-spanking, and I believe that the biggest part of a successful session is the right mindset. Self-spanking is certainly a safe alternative for people who are just exploring this part of themselves. It is definitely driven by a need: a need for discipline, stress-relief, better concentration, etc. It certainly takes practice to know what the right aim is, and it takes courage to slowly extend your limits and learn to spank your own bottom hard when it really starts to hurt. Encouragement from other people online and your own self-discipline help a lot in this matter. Maybe traditional, face-to-face (or better "hand-to-bottom") spankings work better and are necessary for people who seriously lack self-discipline and need extra guidance from someone physically close to them. Self-spanking is surely not for everyone. I might be an exception because I know I need regular spankings and I am willing to spank my bottom sore to fix certain issues in my life and my head. After all, everyone is different, and the variety of options with either real-life or online forms of discipline and control is amazing. The spanking community is amazing overall, and I am so glad self spanking and the Internet exist and allow beginners or just curious spankos like myself explore their spanking needs.
  5. The chat has been lovely and upgraded for a while, but it gets extremely slow when there are over 25-30 people online at the same time
  6. Oh, that's great news! I have always tried to find a fine activity for cardio. I guess that's it!
  7. Hello everyone! I noticed that during spankings it's easy to go out of breath, start sweating, clenching butt cheeks and so on. I mean people normally start sweating when they work out, don't they? Also, during self spankings we are working on our arms and back muscles a lot for sure. Has anyone of you noticed your arms getting stronger after regular spankings? I wonder if that could be another perk of spanking my bottom along with reduced stress levels and enhanced concentration. Katie
  8. Everyone is different and has different pain tolerance, of course. Your hand can get tired quickly, and it's rather hard to spank yourself, to be honest. I started with the wooden spoon and quickly switched to a wooden bath brush with a long handle that seems the easiest implement to use. You should try various things until you find what works best for you :)
  9. Tried figging as a part on self-spanking routine. I expected the feeling to be more intense, but it was still rather rough. I'm generally aroused by spankings and the bumhole area so I was curious to try it out. Didn't shape it a plug, was afraid it would break so just held it with my hand to keep the fig inside. I think it was a worthy experience and would probably practice it later on. What was super cool about it - I didn't need lube to insert it, it had its juices that helped it slide it smoothly. Of course, some people have allergies so you should be careful with that. Also, I've heard that a fresher ginger root provides more intense burning sensation, which should be also kept in mind
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