I'm a 23 year old female looking for an older ER, male or female (gender doesn't really matter to me as I'm strictly looking for someone to fill the mentor/disciplinarian role and nothing more).
I've never actually been spanked before, but I've often thought of it, and I keep finding myself back on this site, so ignoring this desire (or need) doesn't seem to be working. I'd like to get to know someone who's mature and experienced, but also compassionate to sort of serve as a caring authoritative/parental figure. I don't really understand how people form these relationships without pretend