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  1. Oldspankee


  2. Am I looking for discipline? No. Am I looking for punishment? No. Do I find the warmth coming to my butt from the palm of a hand pleasurable? Yes. I suppose you could categorize me in the fun type.
  3. My long term spanking relationship began at a conference when my friend and co-worker playfully told me I needed a spanking. I took him up on it and enjoyed three decades of his spankings. If he says it again go for it.
  4. Always meet in a public setting to get to know each other. Discuss your limits and do not proceed to a spanking unless you are comfortable with a mutually agreed upon experience. If kept within both of your agreed upon desires it should be a worthwhile experience.
  5. Over the lap in a bed where the only discomfort is on my cheeks. The hand on the cheek is my implement of choice.
  6. Bare direct contact with the hand to the cheek is my preference.
  7. In my teens I was into "fun" hand spankings that were erotic in nature. In my twenties I got into punishment strappings and did not find them erotic while the belt was in play. In my thirties I began a long term spanking relationship with a male friend and co-worker. I would lay across his lap sometimes for more than an hour alternating between spankings, conversation and relaxation. These spankings were both fun and painful, though not brutal, and unlike my earlier strappings did not leave welts and bruises only a nice red bottom. I can appreciate each individuals personal needs and expectations when it comes to spanking. Be safe and have fun.
  8. I have found mirrors an integral part of my spanking over the years. As a kid I had a full length mirror on a closet door that was used to view my reddening butt. My long term spanker liked to arrange mirrors so I could visual enjoy the spanking. I still use mirrors when I self spank.
  9. I enjoyed a long term spanking relationship with my best friend. Sadly he moved south this past fall and I have yet to resume a new relationship. I miss the intimacy being over the lap and getting a hand spanking. self spanking may give the burn but lacks the connection.
  10. Oldspankee


    A little self spanking. I miss the real thing.
  11. In my twenties I took many beltings while restrained, and clenching of cheeks and moving was part of the experience. When I began getting long session lap spankings by hand I find keeping the cheeks relaxed for each swat more intimate than clenching. However, as the spankings draw out the cheeks will quiver.
  12. Hopefully you have begun your spanking adventures by now. Would love to know how you made out.
  13. Had to postpone meeting up with a new spanker. Self spanking until this comes to an end.
  14. Mine was when I resumed my love of a spanking as an adult. After a night of drinking my friend talked me into letting him give me a belting. We went to his apartment I stripped and he tied my hands and feet to the legs of this bed, and proceeded to give me an intense, and rather long strapping. We continued to have a relationship for several years. However, we would set the limits for the session in advance. When this relationship ended I never went back to punishment spankings.
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