LazyNerd

I think it really depends on what the punishment is, indeed for. Obviously burnout and perhaps wasted time is a very real fear and if the offense isn't that severe, it might justifiably be lowered. Some ERs definitely take punishments way too far. That being said, depending on the offense, sometimes seeing it through can be extremely important to one's development. I've experienced a spanking similar to this where I wanted to stop midway through, but came to realize that my debt wasn't fully paid until I actually finished the punishment. Ultimately, I think you should talk it over with the ER, perhaps explain the situation, how you're feeling, and what you're willing to do to ensure you've learned your lesson. This may mean that if the offense is repeated in the future, you take an even longer punishment.

I'm in the GTHA.

Naughty naughty! Each day off deserves a different spanking session (3 separate ones). For each day, you will pick one of the 3 implements mentioned and do the following. 1. Stand in a location where the spanking will take place, remove your pants and undergarments. 2. You will look down at your implement for 5 minutes and think about the punishment you are about to receive 3. You will administer 150 strokes with the chosen implement, 5 strokes per cheek, alternating. 4. You will kneel on all 4s, place the implement on top of your bottom and wait there for 5 minutes, thinking about the consequences of skipping work. (Penalty swats if the implement falls off you: 30 strokes, add 10 for each additional time it falls off) For all the time you've wasted on your video games and surfing the web, you will repeat the same procedure as above, but with your pre-spanking reflection will be 6 minutes, your spanking will consist of 100 strokes with each implement, and your kneeling reflection will be 10 minutes long. I've been wasting money needlessly.

Things are online now (just started yesterday) and it feels like our profs have just stopped giving a damn.

Best of luck! You're almost there!

Idk if NCG has other recommendations but that's what works for me.

It honestly depends on your own anatomy. I have fairly long arms and am quite slim so I can make it work. 1' dowels are also way too small. While long ones are impossible to use, you don't get any spin with short ones, so I recommend increasing the length to 22-28". Make sure it's rattan too if possible, otherwise bamboo should work.

Welcome to the site. I'm in Ontario and always willing to chat with like-minded folks!

There are very few of us in Ontario unfortunately.

I'm a big believer in Yoga Pants and Leggings, especially for punishment spankings. They provide much less protection early on and they definitely increase the intensity of a spanking. It's also far easier to aim if you're using an implement on a non-bare bottom. Don't really care what's on top but T shirts are always good. With those on, I don't really care if the EE is wearing panties underneath, if the spanking is eventually going to be bare, it just adds another dimension to the spanking. Skirts are also fun, but more so in a playful sense.

It depends on the situation on my end. If I'm over the knee, all the way off gives my legs more control so having them on often decreases control on my end. If I'm bent over or on a bed taking the cane, having them on doesn't really add restraint, but it does increase vulnerability on my lower thighs. Personally, I'd treat them as two stages, one with them partially on, then completely off.

Which is a more embarrassing bare bottom spanking to you? A nude spanking or a bare bottom spanking with a shirt (or other coverings) on? I find the latter to be the case, largely because when I'm fully nude, I feel as if the focus of the punishment isn't on the spanking. When it's just my bottom that's bare (or even no pants but a shirt), I feel as though the spanking is the main punishment and where all attention should be focused. What are your thoughts?

Ever since I've been spanked in person as an adult, self spankings haven't been the same. I at least need someone to direct my punishment.