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  1. Hi all, I am a local spanker seeking naughty spankees for play, whether that be discipline, fun, stress, etc. I will only consider play with those who are willing to take safety precautions. Spankings will be on the pants/skirt, underwear, and then bare bottom. I am a firm but fair disciplinarian and a very responsive play partner. I look forward to hearing from you, and even more to spanking you.
  2. There's a monthly spanking party in Fairfax thats safe if you want to do some exploring
  3. I don't care if you stop, but I would trade much for me to remove my spanking fetish.lol Because it's an inconvenience and a fucking hassle.
  4. Thats interesting. I have had trouble finding people, not necessarily coordinating schedules. Meh.
  5. I am a disciplinarian in DC and am interested in providing the guidance and accountability you need.
  6. Does anyone have any info about thes spanking scene in the DC metro area? I'd like to know if anyone else is finding the area to be a little dry. Also, why do you think that is?
  7. Hi all, I'm a spanker and disciplinarian in DC. What do you think of mutual cannabis consumption before spanking play and have you ever played (I want to hear from ees and ers) whilst medicated? Also, would anyone like to be spanked in DC before or after consuming cannabis?
  8. I don't believe intimacy necessarily means sexual arousal though they are certainly related. The feelings of closeness and protectiveness that I experience towards a spankee and the catharsis I experience as a result of the control and dominance inherent in a spanking, especially disciplinary ones, provide me with a feeling that I compare to subspace...but for tops. It is more difficult for me to experience the closeness I described towards other males, though the catharsis is the same. Which is why I have only spanked the few men that I have for discipline or my own stress relief. I definitely acknowledge that lot of people are full of it, and hope that I haven't come off as adversarial. But I did want to engage im this conversation because I had heard this sentiment multiple times.
  9. I can honestly say that I don't. I use cornertime, and the no panty rule, but have not used plugging. I was more looking for different perspectives than for an analysis of the specific techniques. That being said I agree with your point.
  10. I understand what you're saying and I will also concede that many males, but I won't say most, may be being dishonest. I do think that generalizations like this ignore the complexity and nuance that people are capable of, including the men in question. Personally, I enjoy spanking people for my own cathartic needs and have found discipline spanking to be most desirable because they are usually platonic. Specifically, I (personally) find sex with spankees crass unless I am spanking my primary partner, erotically. I have spanked men, but I prefer women because while I have no interest in *fucking* them (the people I spank) or engaging sexually at all, the level of intimacy inherent in the act does make me tend toward spanking women. The same way that you can have a cuddle buddy without it being sexual but may not be willing to have that relationship with a member of the same sex.
  11. Hi all, I am a disciplinarian in DC, and I basically want to vibe check the community to see if I am too strict with my charges. How often do you all give cornertime with punishment/accountability spankings, and is it mandatory for them? How do you comduct your maintenance spankings? And do you prescribe other punishments ike lines, plugging, or the no underwear rule?
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