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  1. Great question - I have a few things that trigger overdrive for me. seeing a female handle wooden kitchen utensils like a spoon and a hairbrush (wood). Those send me over the top. Also, seeing a woman dressed certain ways (Skirt, nylons, and heels), especially if they are seated and appear to have a lap made for otk spanking. It’s a massive trigger. No idea why. Finally, certain words like bottom. What’s really interesting is certain words like ass can have the opposite impact. Kind of odd.
  2. @Chawsee, thanks for all of your contributions, and of course, we all have outside responsibilities and need to prioritize appropriately- I think that’s called adulting - not always fun, and absolutely essential! @SpudStateSpanky, no offense intended here but seriously, you sound a bit obsessed with your posts over the past few months. At first I thought it was simply sadness from the end of a spanking relationship (completely understandable). However, now it comes across a bit unhinged. I don’t know either of you, and I’m not looking to meet @chawsee, so my comment is purely from observations without selfish motive. One guy to another - IMO your comments are sending up red flags, and it comes across as a bit stalkerish and scary. We all want to be safe in this community and I felt a strong need to call this out. Again, not intended to insult but to attempt to raise self- awareness.
  3. Hi everyone I am curious about this for all the spankos on the board. How important is role-playing to your scene? Do use role play or do you find it contrived and silly? For me, it’s an essential part of the psychological aspect of being spanked. There is something about a role play that allows me to fully let go and feel like I am being disciplined. Sometimes it can be for real issues but it still exists in the context of a role play. I suspect there are many here who may feel exactly the opposite. My default role play scene tends to have me do some age regression ( late teens to early 20s) and the er play the role of a strict and caring maternal type figure. just curious how everyone else feels about this topic.
  4. I wish self- spanking worked for me… it would solve a lot of problems. it just doesn’t. I need the scolding, atmosphere and loss of control. Some days it feels completely overwhelming, and the lack of fulfillment can be very hard to manage with positivity.
  5. Couldn’t agree more, and for me exactly as Ms Chawsee describes. So glad there are many of us in the same boat. For so long I worried I was obsessed and the only one. Now I know I am obsessed, and not alone 😀
  6. Strict, confident, mature, and caring. Someone whose looks and demeanor match the intended scene. A maternal type spanker who cares about me and is not looking to humiliate or demean. Also, style of dress is important to me. Conservative look, skirt-heels and nylons. Not in any way like a dominatrix but more of a 50s style housewife who rules the roost.
  7. I am fully vaxed!
  8. I’m in total agreement with @chawsee. I respect everyone’s right, desires and needs to be who they are as long as both are consenting adults. For me, spanking is so intertwined with my sexual identity that having a male as the Spanker would just not work for me. Agree completely in individual wiring, and I feel just as strongly that people, regardless of sexual identity, preferences, color, gender, or anything else should be who they are and not feel judged. To be clear, I don’t think anyone is judging on this topping and only clarifying my position.
  9. Interesting topic. I actually prefer a spanker close to my age or older. A lot younger feels much less domestic style discipline and more erotically charged. That being said, beggars can’t always be choosers...
  10. One of my great fantasies is to have a strong, strict women at the office who spanks me over her knee with a hairbrush and provides a stern scolding
  11. Cool thread: 1) male 2) age 6 3) I desperately tried to get the courage up to ask a friends mom to take me over her knee. Thankfully, I never mustered that much courage. That could’ve ended badly 😀 No never watched anyone else, and no idea where this comes from but it’s such a huge part of my identity 4) my first actually spanking was given by a girlfriend in high school. It was good and fun but like all sexual experiences in High school, it left a lot to be desired.
  12. Totally agree about scripted scenes, and I think it takes the genuine feel away from the session. Love the thigh tap! Great insight into the little things
  13. Thanks Jenna, and your description is fantastic!
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