Shameless

Hi, and welcome. It’s a shame I’m not closer - I’m also a switch and we’re in the same age group. It’d be a “Spanking good time” for sure!

Still waiting on an “unexpected” spanking. Sounds like fun!

Same. Once the discipline dynamic is established with another person, it’s difficult for me to wrap my mind around flipping it 180 degrees. Maybe that says more about my (lack of) mental flexibility, but there it is…

Interesting question! It’s different for everyone, of course, but I don’t think I could do it. In any given punishment situation, I’m either in a dominant or submissive mindset and it takes awhile to return to “normal” afterwards. I can’t even imagine going all the way from submissive to dominant in a single session…

Years ago, I was in therapy and communicated my spanking fetish to a female therapist. She treated it as a problem to be overcome, but even back then I think I knew it was an integral part of my being. I never brought it up again, and soon after stopped going. Now, “spanking therapy” - there’s an idea I’d love to try, if it was commonly available.

😊 we could have an old guy spanking party just from answers to this topic!

And that’s exactly as you should feel, Miss. Mr. Petty and his Heartbreakers weren’t kidding when they sang “ The waiting is the hardest part.”

👋 welcome!

Mz. L, In my humble opinion, the severity of the infraction should determine the severity of the punishment. Of course, since you are the judge and jury in this scenario, that would make it your decision alone. Even if the peanut gallery (i.e. your husband) disagrees.

Well, based on my considerable experience, “telling” a woman anything is not a good way to go about getting what you want 😂. Perhaps better is to wait for an appropriate moment, when she is in a very good mood, and subtly work corner time into the discussion. You’ll figure it out…

Not at all! For me, the embarrassment of stripping and complying with my Er’s orders is a primary component of a punishment session. I also prefer the added embarrassment of being sent to a corner of the room after.

There’s a game I’d do everything in my power to lose!😊

PM me if you want details.

It all depends on the people involved, of course, but I had that exact same experience a few years ago and it was amazing. Highly recommend 😊

Awesome story. Methinks she may be a spankee.