Cantsitforaweek

The absolute best implement I have ever found for pain without damage is.....a wiffle ball bat! One of the skinny $5 yellow ones they have made forever. Though it cannot be used effectively OTK, when over the bed or couch it is a super stinger, and has never left a mark on me or any butts I have used it on. It's truly a favorite for me!

I got a bedtime spanking last night and tucked in. After he left I snuck onto my phone for a bit because there was no aftercare and I wanted to chat for a bit. I usually get very chatty after a spanking because of the endorphins. Aftercare for me is usually just having a discussion. But once the endorphins started dissipating, I put down my phone and slept like a baby. I woke up refreshed before my alarm went off. Bedtime spankings are fantastic...

I should add that in the above post I was speaking about punishment, maintenance, and stress relief spankings. In a nutshell, for me, it's about the intent.

I spank any gender and get spanked by any gender. To me a butt is a butt. The size difference between a partner and I is more important to me than what's between their legs. But I might be one of the strange ones because I am able to turn off my sexuality during the spanking, as the top or the bottom. Sexual feelings can come up before or after for me, but during I am focused on other things. I have never been aroused during the spanking portion, just before or after. If I am being spanked I am focus on my pain and headspace. And if I am the spanker, I am focused on their fanny, my delivery,

I appreciate the sentiment. Like most people on here, I am happy if my negative experiences provide warnings to others so they can avoid similar mistakes. And yes, I have had many wonderful experiences as a spankee. Take care

Hello, welcome to the site. I have personal experience with Baseballbutts1. He is in San Diego like me. I don't see any issues with following him or looking at his pics, but I highly suggest never meeting with him inperson. I consider him very dangerous to people like me who, once in a submissive or "boy" mindset, have a hard time breaking the scene or saying no. I feel the need to share my story so here it is: He was drinking when I arrived, and I should have immediately left, which is my fault. I was desperate back then and didn't have enough self respect. He wailed on me way past

Andre the Giant would probably have me feeling pretty small and vulnerable. Too bad I missed the chance.

"I brought you into this world and I can take you out of it!" - both parents more times than I can count. And of course..."you won't be able to sit for a week" (this one may have stuck)

I have very much enjoyed reading this thread. I am lucky enough to be married to a woman who worked as a Pro-Domme for many years. She spanks me when I need it and let's me get spanked by men as often as I need it. As a switch I spank other men and women as well, but would never dream of spanking my wife. I had never heard of subspace or sub-drop before meeting her, 10 years ago,, but after she explained them it made perfect sense in accounting for things I have gone through. I have almost always had anger issues 1 or 2 days after any endorphin or adrenaline rush, no matter the caus

I am absolutely a switch, but never in the same scene, and rarely with the same person. My wife is not a switch. She is strictly a Dom.

You are very skilled, and I appreciate you sharing your talent. If you don't mind my asking, how long does it take to make one your pieces of artwork?

Hello, I just joined the site and wanted to introduce myself. I am a 37 year old male, and I live in San diego. My wonderful wife spanks me at home, and sometimes we spank others, male or female, together. I spank others on my own as well, though I very much enjoy sharing with my wife. For me, spankings are mostly for stress relief, and can occasionally be for punishment. For me the same is true in either role. I travel frequently, and I am currently in Virginia. Sometimes I am lucky enough to bring my wife, and other times, such as this one, I am on my own. I always