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  1. If I don't get a firm enough spanking I'll be feeling the need for another soon after. If I really get it, I'll not feel the need another for days or weeks. Having said that there are times when I got another even when I felt the need was taken care of and there wasn't much to do about that.
  2. Too bad, I think of the hairbrush as the go to tool for maternal discipline. It can be left out in view as a reminder no matter who is around. It stings like hell and it is portable. Still if your husband deserves to get it with the paddle I can understand.
  3. A beach cutie. I hope you had fun
  4. It is cruel. It is occasionally effective as part of a serious punishment.
  5. That is a well punished bottom. What did she do to earn it?
  6. This seems like a good plan. You want that threat hanging out there that he is going to get the post-orgasm spanking. It is best not over used. Give him one taste of it once in a great while when he really messes up and he will know you are serious when you threaten him with that consequence.
  7. Speaking as a switch. Yes, I have experienced this and honestly it is something that should be reserved for unusual punishments. I understand the desire to eliminate any erotic aspect of the punishment, but it is a practice that is pretty harsh to a male EE and should not be overused. After all, if it became a common expectation it loses it's value as a threat.
  8. I don't understand why it's necessary to judge other people who have a reached a consensual agreement about spankings and punishments given to the other. If both parties are satisfied with the arrangement what is the issue. If a ER gets enjoyment from delivering a hard spanking punishment what is the issue? Even if the EE hates it at the time as long as they freely entered into the relationship then there isn't an issue. Some times people want to be held accountable in a very painful way and there is nothing wrong with an ER enjoying the role they play in that.
  9. I think a number of points have already been made, but ideally, there are some agreed upon penalties for certain misbehaviors. Of course, the severity needs to reflect other factors. The number of times the rule has been broken, the other offenses commited at the same time etc. I think one level of severity limits the effectiveness. If you always punish at the maximum level for everything, it can feel out of proportion when small things are punished in the same way as major things.
  10. This was the point I was trying to make earlier. An EE in a DD relationship can't decide to withdraw consent arbitrarily because they don't want to be spanked. If they had negotiated the limits and parameters in advance and no of these are being violated then they should submit to their punishment. If they feel something is off, then it's time to stop the relationship or completely renegotiate. Otherwise, it would be meaningless. I want to distinguish this with other types of relationships where explicit consent would be required. Because there hasn't been an agreement or things are
  11. This was the point I was trying to make earlier. An EE in a DD relationship can't decide to withdraw consent arbitrarily because they don't want to be spanked. If they had negotiated the limits and parameters in advance and no of these are being violated then they should submit to their punishment. If they feel something is off, then it's time to stop the relationship or completely renegotiate. Otherwise, it would be meaningless. I want to distinguish this with other types of relationships where explicit consent would be required. Because there hasn't been an agreement or things are
  12. This was the point I was trying to make earlier. An EE in a DD relationship can't decide to withdraw consent arbitrarily because they don't want to be spanked. If they had negotiated the limits and parameters in advance and no of these are being violated then they should submit to their punishment. If they feel something is off, then it's time to stop the relationship or completely renegotiate. Otherwise, it would be meaningless. I want to distinguish this with other types of relationships where explicit consent would be required. Because there hasn't been an agreement or things are
  13. The fact that you were able to label it a D/D relationship I think is an explicit consent. And unless there's some agreement otherwise you are well within your rights to use it when you wish.
  14. I am sure that he has deserved every stroke of the paddle for his inconsiderate behavior. I am sure at these times he regrets asking you to discipline him.
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