Status Updates posted by MottLee
I seriously need a real punishing spanking. I need a long and hard bare-bottom paddling. Seriously. Like I would have gotten from my mom in my younger years. I need to be painfully punished, but in a loving fair and sane manner. I seem to always lose everyone here. Can anyone relate to this? I am feeling alone with my needs. Am I really alone here?
No MottLee, you are not alone. I understand completely where you arecoming from.
I am PTDC - Punative Theropy Dependency Condition.
A term coined by a counsellor I was seeing some several years ago on another matter, and being punished for things I did came up in the conversation.
I was worried he would ridicule me. However, on the contrary, he supported and encouraged me 100%.
We discussed the fact that it was a mindset I was born with and in no way could I escape.
It is NOTHING sexual whatsoever, but I need a sound and severe caning to relieve guilt and get me focused again.
Don't forget to unplug your Clapper before a spanking. ?
How do I convince my wife that spanking me is really a good idea?
I am not a pet, slave, sub, bottom, submissive, or masochist. I am a man who occassionally makes mistakes. When I feel guilt or shame for that mistake, I feel a need to be held accountable for it. Spanking works for me, since I don't enjoy pain. When properly administered by a woman, a spanking absolves my feelings of guilt and/or shame. I prefer to be face down and flat on a bed or couch, before pulling my pants and underwear down. There should be no frontal nudity. This is not about humiliation for me. I also prefer it to be a bare bottom paddling with a wooden paddle.