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  1. Very nice bottom and very nicely spanked as well
  2. It's always a pleasure to see photos of them spanked together
  3. While I can totally agree that any given individual might feel more comfortable with a very specific orientation of spanker, that may not always be possible. There are definitely more than just a few experienced spankers out there who are straight males or females and they are also LGBTQ+ friendly and non-judgmental, who would be more than willing to help someone sincerely seeking a spanking. There are a number of highly regarded spankers here in Michigan that you might want to talk to to see if you might be compatible, or even to ask if they know anyone to recommend.
  4. Not all of them are going to have the same outlook that a few do. There are definitely pastors in some of the more conservative Christian religions who believe in and preach that spanking is acceptable as domestic discipline. It's more likely to be the fundamentalists, and in the southern portion of the US, but not limited to that. I've been involved in spanking for over 50 years and during that time have spoken with people who had been spanked as adults by their pastor, or who knew other people that had been. There are even very believable reports of pastors who would make regular visits to members of their congregation and administer spankings if it was felt they were necessary. It's far from common though and I'd expect that most would not be supportive of the concept.
  5. Be cautious, but if you are persistent you will likely find what you are seeking. It can be frustrating and could take a while. There are many safe, sane disciplinarians out there it's all a matter of finding one who is compatible and thinks along the same lines as you, whether it's a face to face interaction or a remote mentoring/disciplinarian who will assign you self punishment routines based upon your needs and wants.
  6. My personal experience with spanking women from this board is that they have all been the first one to send a message initiating a conversation, which was followed by a considerable sequence of messages during which we learned about each other, became familiar with what each wanted and needed in a spanking relationship, and made our expectations for behavior clear and limits defined. Only then did we decide to meet in person to see if we felt safe enough to actually proceed with a spanking session. I think it's strongly influenced by the fact that female genitals are not completely external like males. While it's possible to cause injury to a female by spanking too hard in that area, it's much more likely to be an issue with spanking a male, as serious injury to both the penis and testicles are possible, even by accident. Many women find being spanked there to be intensely sexually arousing and want it for fun and pleasure, while other women who feel the need to be punished for whatever sexual misbehavior they have told their spanker about simply want the area to be punished to the point where it hurts badly. I think it's far easier to spank a female in the genital area without causing injury than it would be to do the same to a male, which many people might feel falls into the realm of torture or BDSM.
  7. Welcome to SN and as a beginner, you should be cautious before actually making the connection to get the spanking you want to experience. Please start out by reading Christy's excellent advice in the topic "Power and Control" and other topics in the Spanking Safety and Advice forum section. It's important to establish a friendship and discuss your wants and needs with any potential spanker rather than just rushing into something. That way you can determine if you are a good fit for each other. Always play safely!! Having said that, there are a number of us within convenient driving distance of Columbus who would be willing to discuss what you are seeking, and could safely allow you to have that first spanking.
  8. That certainly brings back memories of the same situation. I remember having the punishment I got at home described in the reply to the note, and I vividly recall already being home from school several times when the dreaded phone call from the principal or teacher came. Once I actually answered the phone, and it was made very clear to me that I would be in big trouble if I didn't put a parent on the phone immediately. Apparently there had been problems with others lying and saying their parents weren't home. But whenever I was there and such a call came in, it was somewhat discouraging to hear the conversation, with a parent thanking the person from school for calling, and describing to that person exactly what was going to happen in a few minutes.
  9. Over the years I've been spanking, I have had interaction with ABDL and with littles. These women were in the lifestyle 100% of the time when they were at home, and wanted it incorporated into their spankings as well. It's not something that I'm averse to helping with, if someone needed to be spanked and diapered, that's fine. I would also like to point out that there are many adults, some of which are not seniors, who need to wear diapers for health/medical issues and may find it embarrassing for their spanker or disciplinarian to know that fact, therefore they may hesitate to approach someone for a spanking. I have no issues interacting with those who fall into that category either.
  10. Being from the US, caning was not usually practiced either at school or in a family setting. But it was very common when someone got a spanking at school either from a teacher or the principal, for a note to be sent home to be signed by a parent acknowledging that the student had been punished. Many times, a phone call to a parent was made instead of sending the note. You could be 100% certain that if parents were notified either by a note or phone call, that you would be spanked a second time at home, and that one was usually as hard as or even harder than the one you got at school. There was no avoiding how the system worked. I can verify that from first hand experience, including all the way through high school.
  11. Most of my sessions last between 1 and 2 hours, with some being even longer. As others have pointed out the entire time isn't spent actually spanking, but doing other things such as preparation and discussion. However, when broken down into segments featuring spanking with different implements and with the person being spanked in different positions, I can easily exceed an hour of total spanking time, but it's 10 minutes of this and 10 minutes of that. Even with regulars that I have spanked once or twice a month, I can't recall any sessions ever being under an hour except when I first started out over 50 years ago. Certainly none have been that short any time recently.
  12. Needy brats, as well as mouthy brats, deserve good, long bare bottom spankings to remind them that such behavior is inappropriate and will always be dealt with quickly and firmly.
  13. This is a very old topic which was resurrected, and the OP hasn't been on SN since 2011. But it's still worthwhile discussing. There can be legitimate and consensual spanking between adults which takes place for a variety of reasons and in a variety of situations. My concern here would be exactly what the relationship between the two women who are described as friends actually is like. Do they live together, or just sometimes see each other to hang out, shop, and so on? Sometimes feelings develop between two people, and in this case the older one may sense a need the younger one has to be disciplined, and she chose to take action on it. The mother-daughter sort of connection given the ages involved seems like a real possibility, and perhaps other things are going on in their friendship which would enhance that sort of thought process. I would agree with the earlier comments that if no consent had been given to be punished, then the older woman is out of line for going there without first having some discussion of what she felt she needed to do, and the younger one not rejecting or declining that possibility.
  14. I like to do a warmup over underpants for a few minutes at the start, but they are definitely being pulled down for the main part of any spanking session. I totally agree that a real spanking is given on a bare bottom. Being stripped naked for added embarrassment is perfectly fine as well, and preferable for me.
  15. I'll open that to discussion by posing a question, one which may not have a clear answer. For average people, those with no professional training as a psychologist, how does one determine that any specific level of maturity has been reached in a young adult? Since it's not the same for everyone, what criteria do we use to make that determination? Also, is taking responsibility for one's behavior and actions the main judgment of maturity, or do other things also need to be taken into consideration? My personal experiences over the years cover a wide range of behaviors, which is even more confusing. I have known many young people in the last couple of years of high school who were very mature, behaved appropriately, and would have been just fine and totally successful if they had been out on their own at that age. They clearly knew how to be an adult and take responsibility, and had excellent social skills, and worked to earn money for things they wanted and needed. They proved themselves while in college and were at the top of their class, never had any problems. Unfortunately, I have also known several in grad school and working toward PhD who didn't have enough sense to come in out of the rain, seriously. I don't know how some of them were even functional in daily life, let alone as advanced college students. One girl had completed all her required course work and apprenticeships, needed only to write her dissertation which she had already researched and outlined, in order to graduate with that PhD, but instead all she was interested in doing was having fun with her younger friends, going shopping, basically anything but what she was supposed to be doing. This went on for years without her ever putting in any further effort to finish and submit that dissertation, and one would have expected by then her parents would be tired of paying the bills.
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