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I'm the same...I tried to get into real "discipline" spankings years ago, but I ended up breaking rules on purpose and "disappointing" my ERs. 😬 At the end of the day, I love spanking too much to pretend to hate any of it. But I do love hard spankings and I'm down for funishment most anytime. 🍑

Same! This would only motivate me to stay in bed. 🤣

I'm not into genuine punishment spankings, but the worst implement I was ever spanked with was a bath brush or thick wooden paddle. Owww. Your razor strop sounds fun though. LOL

OTK hand spanking to start, then laying in the couch with a pillow under my hips. It was multiple implements, paddle, hairbrush, belt, etc.--I don't remember all off them-- and it probably went on for 45 minutes or more. He kept asking me if we were done and I kept saying no, and then finally he made the decision that it was enough,which looking back, I'm grateful for because I wasn't thinking too straight at that point, and I was pretty numb physically. I was sore for a few days but didn't bruise too badly.

My most severe wasn't a punishment spanking at all. It was from a well-trusted male friend of mine because I needed the stress relief. It was definitely the longest and hardest spanking I ever received, although and I didn't cry, it was definitely the first and probably the only time I reached what they call "subspace". I was out of it for quite a while afterward, but I had never felt so calm and relaxed. I felt drugged, almost. LOL. And I slept very well that night.

I'm an -ee and defintely not submissive. I'm also not into it for primarily discipline purposes. With the right person, I'll play hard, but for me it's more about about fun and stress relief.

Christy, I just tried to message you, but it says you can't receive messages. I just wanted to respond to this but would rather it not be public.

I love this question! I have wondered why people who claim it's not sexual at all or that only give discipline spankings have such rigid rules on dress and gender boundaries. I'm a straight female spankee and have never been spanked by another woman, but I've wondered what it would be like and would definitely give it a try if I had the chance. Spanking is absolutely a turn-on for me, but I'm generally not turned on by being spanked unless I'm sexually attracted to my spanker. That wouldn't be an issue with a woman, so I don't see why I should have any qualms about it.

I can only speak for the younger me because it's been a long time. For hard and slow spankings, I was pretty good at keeping still because for the most part, it was something I wanted. Hard and fast spankings, which were primarily for discipline, I fought like crazy. Not just because I hated it, but because no matter how hard I tried (and I did), I couldn't stay still. Unfortunately for me, they were all strong ERs and were able to pin me down. 😒

Gemini and spankee.

And, I just realized this was about refusing to chat with someone based on age. There are no age or gender barriers for me there. I'll chat with anyone as long as I feel comfortable with the subject matter.

I'm 44 and prefer ERs around my own age. This is not a hard and fast rule--it somewhat depends on his demeanor and personality--but in general, no more than 5-6 years younger or 10-12 years older. **Unless you're Sam Elliot. Sam, if you're out there, I don't mean you. 😄** Age preferences aren't personal, they're just preferences. If a 25 or 30 year old wasn't interest in meeting up based on my age, I wouldn't be insulted. 🤷‍♀️

It's been ages for me, however the belt and strap were my favorites, especially when it started with a good warm-up over my clothes. Least favorites were wooden spoon and wooden paddle.

The sound of a belt clearing belt loops. 😬😂

Absolutely not! The best reason is no reason. 🙂