It can be difficult to find the right person, and it can take a very long time to find someone. Many would probably tell you here, that it was worth the wait. It just takes time finding a person you can totally trust. It’s a great thing that you posted your limits/ what you aren’t looking for. It will just take time finding someone, and chatting / talking, getting to know them. You want to be sure the person will respect all of your limits. This being the internet, you can never be too careful. There’s a lot of good information to read in the safety section. Guess the point of all this rambling was, when I saw the title of your post, I thought to myself, “hope they don’t rush into anything due to a strong need”. Wish you good luck in your search.