I find I never quite know what to say…I’m a newbie to the actual act of being a spankee but I’m not new at all to the need to be spanked. I am 53 and have been married to a wonderful man for over 30 years. I finally faced my fears that he might think I had gone crazy and confessed to him. He has really stepped up and become such a great dominant to my submissive side. Although we are new at this, I am starting to feel very comfortable in our new roles and would like to reach out to like minded people for conversation and information.