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Ahh, me too 😌👌🏿😁

I would eat bugs on the condition that they were bought in a bag to be eaten. And I would eat them until I was sated, just until I swallowed maybe a handful to check eating bugs off the bucket list. Would you ever start a fight whether physically or verbally?

Okie dokie 👌🏿that semi sorta the plan.

The drinking of alcohol is completely fine in my household, like you said I'm indeed living with parentals. But they don't care what I'm doing as long as I let them know of my whereabouts. So sometimes the drinking of alcohol is legal because of the consent of them. From the slight conversation I had with my Mentor about the topic. I found that the illegalness wasn't the only reason for me not being able to drink whenever I want. I was also not so responsible with it before when he found out. So yeah, but it's been a bit since then and I've improved. That's basically my case that I brought to the table so that we could come to an agreement on the specifics of that particular drinking rule. I jumped to conclusions just an ish bit when it comes to my mentor and the way in which he deals with me. When he first found out I was drinking, it wasn't in the best way so I understand the rule now. I also understand what I've gotta do and what I've been doing. I've gotta be a better mentee and communicate with him a little more than what I've have.

I wanna be obsessed fan. All that medievalness seems like a jolly ol time.😁🤩 Lol I'm just not good at finishing shows.

😬Yeah, I realized by the end of this discussion that was definitely the case. 🤦🏿‍♀️😊 Thanks.

Weelll see, it would've worked that way. With the whole discuss, make, follow deal. And we did indeed do that in the beginning. When I went looking for a mentor in this spanko world, I knew I wanted some rules. I knew of only one thing that I wanted to improve on though. This rule wasn't established in the beginning, it was established after a situation took place. I did agree to the rule when he set it. But now, after a bit of for the most part of following it. I just wanted him to become less strict on it or maybe even remove it all together. In my mentor/mentee relationship I've basically given him the authority over me. That's just it. If we talk and he finds something out that he feels I'm being less than responsible on, he'll try to fix it. Which is why I get permission before certain things. So I guess he thought that I was making less than okay decisions with alcohol and maybe I was, but I haven't been going overboard as of late, mainly because I'm not supposed to be drinking without his knowledge. Last time he found out I drank I guess a large amount of the drink. He grounded me for as many shots as I took. Which was a long time indeed. A bit after that grounding, there was a celebration. And I learned my lesson, I wasn't going to drink too much and I knew to ask permission before doing so. I asked him to consume just and ish bit of the drink and he said "absolutely not". I guess I wasn't ready for that "no". It was the wrong way to go but I've just haven't been asking for his permission to drink. I've just limited myself and stayed away from it until a celebratory situation arises. Yup, that was dumb. I kinda assumed no was gonna be the answer forever. So now, because of all that non-asking (basically lying) I was feeling it too much. I came up with just talking to him about the rule that's a bit hard to follow.

It doesn't say anything about the in between ages of 19 and 20. But I'm pretty sure, parents can buy their younger than 21 year old adults drinks.

Indeed. In Texas, a person may provide alcohol to a minor if he/she is the minor’s adult parent, guardian, or spouse, and is visibly present when the minor possesses or consumes the alcoholic beverage. Smh, ah man. I've been legal most of the time.

🤭Oh snap, maybe I should.

Yes indeed, as long as have permission from my parentals then it's very legal.

Yeah, maybe I should tell him that broke the rule during that discussion we have.

Oh no, I hope that's not how it's going. I don't know him like that but I've put trust in him. So if I find out that's how it going, no worries. I'll know what to do.

😅Maybe that came out wrong, it's only because I'm not drinking illegal when I have consent from my parents. I do drink illegally sometimes and that I'm indeed willing to stop. But when it comes to drinking socially, it's a bit hard to deny. But like someone said in this topic, I'ma need to get over that.

Well I gave him some reasons for why I should be able to drink. He was down to have that particular discussion with me until he saw my last reason. So now, I'm in the process of letting him know that I indeed know what's wrong and what can go wrong with alcohol before we can discuss it.