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Men. Your first adult spanking.
christyspanks replied to hairbrushedhubby's topic in Polls and Surveys
Thanks for sharing this Steven. I’m sure that this has been quite an emotional journey for you, to share such a deep yearning with your wife. From what you’ve written I can tell that you have needed this since you were a little boy, so to have a wife who understands and supports you like this is something very special indeed. -
Hi Christy
I wonder why I got that feeling of being watched!....
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Johnny
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Hello. I'm used to being in a situation where my partner is HOH. I'm a 53 year old male from NY. I seek direction and discipline from an authoritative female. I understand that I need to be held accountable for my actions. and accept the consequences. Thank you!
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Emotionally Arousing Spanking Fantasies
christyspanks replied to christyspanks's topic in Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)
I fully agree with this. I think a lot of us struggle with the concept of revealing ourselves emotionally. It almost feels as though we are exposing ourselves naked for someone. What draws me to someone is knowing how difficult it is for them to "bare themselves" emotionally, yet at the same time I would know that their exposure and vulnerability is what they fear/crave the most. I would know that I have to be sensitive and careful with that person, to help them experience that magical combination of emotional exposure (being embarrassed, ashamed, regretful, worried, nervous, scared etc) while -
Emotionally Arousing Spanking Fantasies
christyspanks replied to christyspanks's topic in Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)
It's so interesting when you think about how the brain processes emotions, and I can only assume that the brain is working overtime to process the myriad of emotions that are taking place in the mind of someone who is anticipating and/or receiving a powerful spanking. I say powerful because I'm referring to a spanking that requires a person's pants to be pulled down and for them to feel the burning, stinging pain and embarrassment as it's happening. I'm way more fascinated by seeing or being with someone who is nervously/fearfully anticipating their fate, knowing that right there in that momen -
In my (limited) experience, I have found the act of spanking someone, particularly my husband, to be mostly driven by his need/desire for it. At the same time, it is very fulfilling for me to be able to do this for him. It's the fascination in seeing him becoming so nervous as he's anticipating what's about to happen to him, then the outpouring of emotions as his pants are down and I'm lashing his bottom with a belt or paddle. It's never that I'm hurting him physically (that much) but his embarrassment and guilt will cause him to cry in most cases. Even still, he will become deeply aroused in
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Hi there. I’m Bryan from Virginia Beach. It’s always nice to meet a fellow spanker.
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Helloo there, I’m Jen 😊 I’ve never spoken to any females that like to B the spanker. Do u also enjoy being spanked? Otk is my fave place
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Emotionally Arousing Spanking Fantasies
christyspanks replied to christyspanks's topic in Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)
Thanks for sharing your personal situation. I would fully agree that there is a particular marriage of that psychological component which I'm sure stems from your childhood, and the physical burning, stinging pain of the spanking you're receiving. You need to experience both together in order to really fulfill what your heart is yearning for. It's not even that you want to intentionally do things which would cause you to deserve a spanking, but you know that there are reasons why this is something you deeply deserve. There's a very particular process by which the embarrassing punishment you kn -
Emotionally Arousing Spanking Fantasies
christyspanks replied to christyspanks's topic in Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)
oh most definitely! This is a good example of exactly the sort of thing I'm talking about. I think it would start with a person who has developed intense thoughts and fantasies surrounding their own spanking. The thoughts and fantasies are difficult because they know it's something that will hurt them, embarrass them, and make them feel ashamed...yet these feelings draw them like a moth to a flame. To be willingly placed in a position where he or she would have to confess their wrong doing in front of others would create an extraordinary vulnerability. To be able to simply discuss this process -
Emotionally Arousing Spanking Fantasies
christyspanks replied to christyspanks's topic in Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)
For me there has always been a strange fascination in seeing someone become electrified with emotions and arousal at the same time, as a result of their anticipation of their spanking, during the spanking or even after it. These various stages of the punishment process each have their own unique elements which I believe contribute to the overall experience for the person being spanked. I personally have never had an interest in angrily or forcefully spanking someone, as it is much more intriguing for me when I know the person I'm spanking (or witnessing being spanked) is actually yearning for
