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Visualize a hairbrush as a sort of want and you have got it.

So the words "spank magic" come from the amazing novel series of Cheeky (Cheeky's Legacy and Cheeky Meets her Match). I cannot tell it to you better then the novels. Its about admitting that behind consciousness is the 3rd sense, hiding in plain sight. Give them a read and we can chat all you like.

Let it erupt from inside you. First tell yourself "I will not cry, I'm too big." its a lie, but work with it a bit. Then think about how good you can be and how much less than that you are (personally, I'm never truly bad, just less than good) Then listen to your spanker a while. He should be using words that open you heart mind and bottom. That's spank magic. Then think about how cleansing a good cry can be. Then just feel it. Feel it deep.

I suck in breath hard during a real one. its just natural.

To me the moment before tears is the most precious moment of the whole spanking. Of course there are worthy other contenders: being told I am due for a real one, corner before discipline, turning across as an act of willful submission, first stroke etc. But I love feeling the cry building, and I love holding it back, and I love promising myself that this time I will not cry, because I'm a big girl and big girls don't dry. And I tell myself that maybe a whole 20 seconds before it erupts. And them I'm there. Spanking orgasm. And since I'm crying I'm not such a big girl. And that feels marve

I think for me the greatest influence was that our mom and dad had a passionate love, and he spanked her. So I grew up realizing the connection between love and behind. A woman who gave herself with behind just gave herself in a deeper and more pure way.

“Tomorrow you will lead us in the morning meditation.” She nodded. That was her special role at Center. It’s where she first began to learn that she was gifted in her own right. “I need you to help people see that they each have their own very special gift.” Grace hesitated. Doc continued, “We need to understand. We are grasping at bits of a bigger puzzle. First understanding our own gifts then sharing is how we are going to put it all together.” She looked panicked. “I want to help,” she was being completely earnest. “But how do I help them to understand when I don’t.

Wow, so glad I found that book. So penetrating and real, even though its fantasy. I just want to jump in and join them. Like become one of the characters or something. What was your favorite part? For me its when Grace is having a panic attack, and Doc takes her to the spanking that puts her in touch with her power. Then she is able to lead the congregation forward! Wow again.

Read a novel together and talk about it. I very much recommend starting with something fun and relationship building, like Cheeky's Legacy. But for more fantasy like choose the Beauty Books

Have you read Cheeky's Legacy? Lilly shows up depressed from miscarriages at the Spa. She is brought there by her husband Dan. He is a frustrated spanker both trying to help Lilly and achieve his own spank sexuality. The Spa is run by a psychologist who knows from his practice people don't get better through therapy. Spanking reaches the bottom, then mind and heart. That's my experience too, and I'm glad to talk about it.

Oh I so agree. This really is a spanking book more for the benefit of the behind than the hand. But it also reaches the mind and heart of both.

I think that I benefit from spankings. So are spankings a kind of blessing, that creates more awareness and love? Isn't that the path to enlightenment and god and such?

I just got this book and it so speaks to me. Its basically trying to say that for not vanilla people the behind is the sixth sense portal. That meaningful relations, personal change and spiritual fulfillment are all enhanced with spankings well given and received. I have been looking for a novel that fits what I am trying to feel. In this novel, there is a spa devoted to health and happiness. The psychiatrist discovers that meaningful change requires spankings. So true. it is funny, sort of political, full of ideas and so very sexy. I am hoping others have read it and want to chat. It is with