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I've had a somewhat similar evolution, at first I was only interested in the ER side of things, but over time I've become a switch and now would say I orient slightly more towards the receiving side of things. The original interest didn't disappear, I'm still interested in the ER side, but its no longer the whole the whole thing for me, and I'm happier because of it.

My first spanking was in my old truck. Oh memories.

I recently came across some excellent F/M spanking stories on a website called wattpad. I didn't write these, but felt that I'd be doing all interested in the subject a disservice if I didn't share them. The authors name is AirKatelyn, and she's got some talent! https://www.wattpad.com/story/174019003-f-m-spanking-short-stories

I'm working on it sillygirl, I'm already in trouble for procrastinating as it is 😉

Side Note: Jillian Keenan is the best.

I've only been to one, a SCONY (NYC) party a few years ago. It's nice to see others that share interests, but I think it is more enjoyable for people who are comfortable in group settings where they don't know anyone, and that's not really me. I might try to attend another different party, but don't really have any plans to do so at the moment.

SwitchWithMe, I don't find it hard to understand that some spankings between people aren't sexual, it's more that I find it hard to understand that some people have spanking relationships that aren't ever sexual for either party, if that makes sense. I didn't say it doesn't exist, just that I find it hard to understand, likely in no small part due to the fact that it is a sexual act for me.

I think this is an interesting topic and will give you my honest opinion on the matter: I'm a straight switch and I find spanking to be an erotic experience, because of this I wouldn't ever want to spank a man or be spanked by one. I accept the idea that for some people spanking is entirely a non-sexual activity, although I find that really hard to understand (and personally I think a good portion of people who claim to be are either being dishonest or are in denial). I suppose that heterosexual same-sex spanking partners could work for someone in a purely D/D situation, but even then you can't be certain that it wouldn't be sexual to the other person involved. I want to clarify that I don't think that there is anything wrong (at all) with being LGBTQ, but as someone not a part of that community the idea of spanking a man has no appeal for me at all and is not something I would ever engage in. Just my two cents.

Congratulations Honey!

Over the knee

I wrote this a few weeks ago, I still need to get around to writing part 2. I originally wrote it on my phone, so my apologies for the awful formatting. Brian and Julie opened the trunk of their car and removed their heavy camping bags, ready to start their four mile hike to the top of Beakin Mountain which they had been planning for the last two weeks. Before they put on the bags they went over their checklist, trying to make sure that they hadn't forgotten anything essential for the trip. Brian had packed the heavier things including the camping gear, and Julie had packed all of the food and clothes. Having completed this last pre-check they loaded up their bags, and began the long, arduous climb. Within the first twenty minutes they were already a little tired and had settled into the routine of the hike, not speaking much as they went due to the strain of the slope and the weight of their bags. Halfway there they stopped to have a light lunch, Julie had packed some sandwiches in the top of her bag so they wouldn't need to adjust all of their gear in order to eat. As they sat by a little brook Julie commented on how beautiful the scenery was, while also admitting that she dreaded putting the bag bag on and continuing; Brian shared the sentiment. After finishing their lunch they put the bags back on, and began the second half of the climb. They passed one other couple that was making their way down the mountain, but other than that the park seemed to be theirs alone, which made them ecstatic, they hated having to share camping spots. After a long, steep final stretch they finally reached a little plateau near the summit that looked like a perfect spot to set up camp. Dropping their bags, they sat for a minute to catch their breath before unpacking. It was liberating to be done, they had always been fonder of camping than the actual hiking, and now they could look forward to a nice fire, dinner, and some lovely bourbon that Julie had picked out. Brian began unpacking his bag, and felt a lump in his throat.... Where was that whiskey? Julie had reminded him twice to pack it, and he was sure that he had, but couldn't find it anywhere, and a liter of bourbon isn't hard to find in a backpack... He had forgotten it! FUCK! Julie meanwhile was unpacking her meticulously prepared pack, and looked very happy with their trip so far. Brian knew she was about to look much less pleased. "Julie, I think I fucked up" "What do you mean Brian?" "I forgot the bourbon, I'm sorry". "SERIOUSLY? I asked you about it at least twice, you said you had it" "I did, but I think its in the car..." "Oh my god come on Brian, you never listen when I talk!" Brian looked sheepishly at his feet, he could tell Julie was really annoyed. "Brian look at me when I'm talking to you!" Brian looked up as Julie began rummaging in her pack for something. Finding whatever it was she grinned a bit, which seemed odd. "I was planning on us having a little naughty fun tonight, and packed this, but now it isn't going to be for fun, I am going to blister your butt with this brush, and then you are going to hike down that mountain and get that bourbon and bring it back here!" As she said this Brian saw what was in her hand.... A wooden hairbrush. "Please Julie, not now, not here!" Brian hadn't been spanked in public before, and even though he hadn't seen anyone else since the couple they'd seen on their way up there was no guarantee that no one was going to come walking from the other direction. And while he dreaded actual punishment spankings he also found spankings to be extremely erotic, at least when they were done for fun. Now he stood in front of Julie knowing he was in trouble, yet also turned on, and simultaneously embarrassed as she could see he was becoming aroused. "Oh, you think that this is going to be fun, hmmm? You're getting turned on? Well lets see if that is still the case in a few minutes" - With that she sat down on a log and beckoned Brian to come towards her. He did, walking over to her side, almost as if he was in a trance. "There isn't going to be any warm up, and I'm not going to bother using my hand" she said as she undid his belt and took his pants and boxers down. She looked at his massive erection and chuckled a bit, she'd deal with that later. First she took him over her lap and patted the brush against his alabaster white behind. "Are you ready Brian?" "NO" "Excuse me?" (silence) "Fine Brian, have an attitude, that will help you" - and with that she landed the first swat right on his sit spot - SMACK "Ouch!" Julie come on, can't you start with your hand?" "Nope" - SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK SMACK CRACK SPANK SPANK. "OWOWOWOWOWOW, Please!" "No! You need to listen to me when I talk, and when I ask you to double check it I mean it! I was looking forward to getting a little buzzed tonight and it is too late for you to walk down tonight which means we'll have to wait until tomorrow to drink! And you're going to walk to the car tomorrow to get it on your own, and with a bruised bottom as a reminder!" SPANK CRACK CRACK CRACK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK "OWWWWWWW JULIE PLEASE!" SPANK SMACK SMACK CRACK CRACK CRACK "Owowowowowow Oh my god I'll listen I swear!" "Brian, that is what you said the last time I spanked you for this" "Please Julie, what if someone can hear?" "I don't care, you're going to learn Brian!" CRACK CRACK CRACK CRACK CRACK - Julie was now hitting him again and again on his sit spots, she knew how much these hurt. She almost felt bad, almost. "Are you going to listen to me?" "Yes Ma'am" CRACK SMACK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK SPANK "Owwwwwww!" Brian's butt was now deep red with some light bruising, his legs were kicking, and he couldn't help but to try to reach back to defend his bottom, Julie wasn't having this however, and quickly pinned his hand behind his back. SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK Out of the corner of his eye Brian caught some movement, but he was so overwhelmed with his burning behind that he didn't look closer. The hairbrush continued to rain down, until he heard another woman's voice exclaim "EXCUSE ME, WHAT IS GOING ON HERE?" - He looked up, and instantly recoiled... There to their right was a park ranger! A beautiful, voluptuous redheaded park ranger who didn't look pleased at all..... TO BE CONTINUED.

Sorry to hear about the unhappy ending Ginger. On your original topic, I just wanted to say that I wasn't always a switch, originally my interest in spanking was just in giving them, but over time I changed and now I probably lean 60/40 towards getting spanked. Life is funny like that.