kodiakzach

I've decided to start this group for male spankees and for those who identify as male and those who support, love and spank us. Whether you're spanked for discipline or erotic reasons, whether you're straight, bi or gay, whether you're just curious let's share and support each other. There's so much pressure on us to be "macho" and so on that owning and hopefully enjoying this side of ourselves isn't always easy. I struggled with my metal health for many years coming to accept this side of myself and I'd like to try and help others if I can - even if it's sharing part of my story.

Self Spankers For those of us who are unable or unwilling to find someone to help us. After reading several posts and profiles I saw there are quite a few folks who practice self spanking. It is my hope we can share our experiences and support each other.

For LGBTQIA etc. spankos

READ IN FULL! THIS GROUP IS FOR SUBMISSIVES ONLY (male or female) that are in a D/s or single led DD relationship and/or power dynamic or interested in having one. Absolutely NOTHING in the group is to be shared with others. That includes your Dom/me or HoH. **After requesting to join, please send a PM to Poison's verifying you are a submissive or interested in being one with a brie f explanation as to why you would like to be added. If a PM is not sent within 72 hours of your request, you will be denied** After you have been accepted into the group, we ask that you read the rules and reply "read in full" so we know you have read them. We also ask that you take the time to introduce yourself and reply to the "In The Know" thread, which is located in General Talk. Let us know a little about you! No D/s relationship is exactly alike. It's nice to know somewhat of the dynamic each of us are in or are searching for.

This group is for those in NYC and the surrounding areas (southern CT, Westchester, New Jersey, Western Long Island, etc). Ironically, while it's easy to find EVERYTHING else in New York, spankings and spankers can be hard to come by! Hopefully we can connect on SN and maybe even have a munch or other events in the city.