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Thanks for posting this, although I think my "about me" is pretty well explained, and not sure I can add much to it, I do agree that it really helps here when people have at least a little information in that area of their profile.

I was the oldest and as some have said seems like I got the most as I was expected to be an example to my younger two brothers and sister. Also we brothers were very close in age which contributed to us getting into trouble or fighting between ourselves often as well, so lots of spankings ended up being "group" spankings with us all getting them together. We were all pretty stubborn back then, I still remember several times one of us did something and Dad did not know which one of us did it and we got that speech.... "If the one who did i does not tell me you did it..... all three of you will bet spanked..... and no one admitted to the deed so we all got swats for it.

Like many others who grew up on the farm, no woodshed spankings for me, but trips to the barn and equipment shed had the same effect, although not the same stigma as the woodshed. They still taught the lesson you needed to learn in no uncertain terms.

Did not get one but gave one last night, left her nice and red and worn out. Hand followed with paddle. She will be a good girl for a while at least.

welcome to the site hope you enjoy your time here and find what you are looking for. Would be happy to chat any time you are available. enjoy

I think given the same size and shape any paddle with heavier weight gives more thud compared to sting. So the normal heavy woods like oak, maple, ash, and of course the more rare exotic woods as well. There are so many the list of hardest would be very long. Probably the least expensive is oak, in the heavy class

That is the way it is for us, normally, although sometimes it is also the main course ha ha

I think there are as many motives as there are ways and reasons for a spanking. The most important thing is trust and communication, before, during and even after the spanking. Listening to what the spankee wants/needs, and truely understanding that is so important for a successful relationship. The spankee should also understand where the spanker is coming from, and that they are not mind readers, and need communication and feedback as well. Both parties understand and communicating what they feel and get from the spanking will make things the best they can be. Assuming you know how the other party feels can lead to bad outcomes or at the very least not as great as it could be. \

I am still ready and able!!!

You have to be careful in the woods here in Indiana, there are lots of us spankers, that just love to warm a bottom in the woods, As long as we can find a secure, private place to do it.

I am in Indianapolis, male, if you find that close enough for a meeting I would be happy to talk to you and see if we might be on the same page about things and a possible meeting.

Mine was in school, way back in the day a bunch of us had bean shooters, one of us was stupid and shot one at a teacher. About five of us that had them were taken to the boiler room, made to bend over and got three swats from the school paddle. It hurt everyone of rubbed our butts after the swats. I had black and blue bruises for a week after.... and yes we all learned our lesson, never got a bean shooter again.

Just pm or message me, and we can probably work something out.

all good advice Johnny, and all good questions to try to answer. I struggles with the same questions and many more when I first got into spanking. Some were easy to answer, others I never was really able to find real answers to.... In the end I just decided to not worry so much about all the whys, and decided to just do what felt and came naturally. That attitude has served me well for many years.... Sometimes I think we can over think this spanking thing we all have in us..... Just enjoy it and let yourself be yourself

I have been ask the age question several times, and always struggle explaining why age is not that important to me. You explained it here in a few words exactly how I feel about age, looks, and even gender. Thank you very well said.