Ravenbrooke

No and who has jade statues just laying around? 🤣 CYP a musical instrument that is not a drum or guitar!

My husband and I have been in a domestic discipline relationship for over 15 years. I am a submissive to him. We are also from Michigan. I'd love to chat some time.

I have only one thing to add....chocolate kisses. When I feel down my husband sometimes comes home with chocolate kisses. For each one he gives me I have to tell him something I feel is positive in my life. After giving me 5 or 6 I start to feel better. My focus is effectively shifted away from the negativity and stress I'm feeling to more positive feelings. Plus I get to eat chocolate which I absolutely love ♥️ but am rarely allowed to eat it. My advice is this. Find your version of chocolate kisses (doesn't have to be an edible thing) and give it a try. I find this helps even when by yoursel

I was in the exact position as you are 12 years ago with my husband. What seemed to help him the most was the changes he saw in my mood and behavior. At first I would point these things out to him. Tell him often how happy I was after a spanking. Point out signals that I saw in myself that indicated I needed another one. After a long hard spanking I was happier and more enjoyable to be around. To me I felt closer to him therefore I went out if my way to show him my love and gratitude. He didn't learn how to spank me overnight and it certainly didn't come naturally to him but he was trying. Ove

My worst was on an already sore bottom. I had been spanked every night for three nights. Instead of learning my lesson I had an attitude with him about it. That night he grabbed me by the waist of my Jean's and led me to the chair. He yanked my pants down around my ankles, bent me over the back of the chair and proceeded to tear into my bottom with a bamboo spoon until it felt like it was in fire. The whole time he was lecturing me on respect and obedience. He made sure to get the top of my thighs too. Just when I thought he was done he yanked my panties down and demanded I remove them and spr

Our predetermined story is "Hey we like rough sex". It's amazing how fast the subject is dropped. The only doctor that has ever noticed is my general practitioner. He shrugged his shoulders and said "as long as its consensual".

We use a leather loopy from Adam and Gillians. It's similar to the loopy Johnny but made with thin leather loops instead. It stings like hell and has some weight behind it. Like a belt but very quiet. I must warn you though. It will leave a lasting impression on both your backside and your behavior.