Years ago I really needed to be spanked for something I did that was very wrong. Please do not ask me what I did wrong. Anyway, I was contacted by someone who called themselves Sharon Tower who said they would give me the spankings I needed and it would be several not just one. Turned out "Sharon" was a stage name and it was a man who was androgenous and could pass for a man or a woman.
Other than my father growing up, that was the only time I had been spanked by a man.