I agree with what everyone has said, not the greatest start. I try not to see malice if I can avoid it, and he's demonstrating the behaviors of someone who is new to the scene. It could be that the 'advanced consent' is something he's absolutely on board with, but didn't really get it. I remember my early toppy days and cringe at some of the assumptions I made and things I said.
I know Daisy a little from chatting, and she's an extremely intelligent and competent person, so I'm thinking she can navigate and educate (and keep herself safe!), such this relationship moves onto firmer ground for her.