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That's what a good, responsible spanker does. Safety first! Perhaps if you start their next spanking fast and hard from the get-go, you can provide enough overwhelming sting to bring them to tears and past their limits so you can end the spanking before their bare bottom starts showing real damage. Only if they agree to it and know what they are getting into, of course.

Some pingpong paddles can sting more on the bare than people realize. An old fashioned sturdy plywood one can sting anyway, because you can really swing it hard without worrying about it breaking. And yet, it is light enough not to bruise or impact the deeper tissues. Translation: STING 🐝💥😣 Did your uncle move down the line, giving each of you one paddle lick at a time, or all 30 at once before moving to the next kid? Do you think the belt hurt more or less because you had already been paddled?

A spanking is effective or “good” if it disincentivizes misbehavior. The spankee realizes that whatever he/she was doing wrong is no longer worth the pain of a good spanking. Fear of future good spankings creates an incentive to be good instead of bad.

Wow, I really hope that goes well for both of you!

Yes it’s mighty tough. However, when I do find the rare guy who can handle me physically, it makes me feel like a 14-year-old boy being spanked over his dad’s knee. That is kind of an amazing sensation.

I have a safeword unless (1) I fully trust the person spanking me, and (2) my spanking is punishment for misbehavior. Since I’m a big athletic guy, punishment spankings typically need to be administered by another bigger, preferably older gentleman who can successfully handle me. That is a rare find. When I am pinned otk and the implement (usually an oversized ping-pong shaped plywood paddle) is raining smacks on my bare behind and I can’t move, can’t do anything but lie here and get my spanking, and I would do anything to make the stinging stop, and yet the spanks keep falling and the sting b

Do you think most people would define “bottom on fire” simply as a more intense, unbearable stinging? That’s pretty much the way I see it, at least. For me, the line between sting and fire is crossed at the point where I truly want it to stop and will be pushed to crying if it goes on long enough. And if I need to be punished, that regrettably is what needs to happen.

How terrible! I would never advocate doing that to a kid … or even a consenting adult, though there are probably some folks out there who enjoy being bruised. Glad to have you here.

Bottom on fire, for sure. A good spanking begins when you want it to stop.

Hi all, I’m a mid-40s guy who needs a “hand” in breaking a bad habit of mine. We could do this principal’s-office style. Each week, I would report to an agreed-upon location, take some paddle licks over pants (number to be determined according to number of offenses), dry my eyes and go. Is there anyone who can help me out with this, please? Age and gender of the spanker don’t matter as long as you know how swing a board. Thanks so much for reading!

Hi all, I’m a mid-40s guy who needs a “hand” in breaking a bad habit of mine. We could do this principal’s-office style. Each week, I would report to an agreed-upon location, take some paddle licks over pants (number to be determined according to number of offenses), dry my eyes and go. Is there anyone who can help me out with this, please? Age and gender of the spanker don’t matter as long as you know how swing a board. Thanks so much for reading!