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  1. For me in the few times it’s happened it’s just been a series of online communication lasting for varied amounts of time depending on the circumstances, and then meeting in a public place. A couple times that public meeting has then immediately been followed by a session, and a couple others it was almost like a job interview and then we got together a few days or weeks later. Bottom line is just be careful and trust your spidey sense if you think anything at all might be risky.
  2. Last week I tried self spanking for the first time in a long time, and after my last and hardest round I was somewhat surprised to find that I needed to catch my breath. I don’t recall that having happened before. Unfortunately I can count on one hand the number of spankings I have had that have been hard enough to maybe make this happen. But I’ll have to pay more attention in the future.
  3. I have never had a same-sex spanking encounter as an adult. I had extensive ones with a male neighborhood friend from the age of 10-15. When I was in elementary school I would try to make games competitive and suggest the loser get a spanking. I did that with this individual and it just clicked. Although we never really talked about it much, it is obvious to me now that he had at least some interest. Early in that period of time we would play video games or pool or whatever to see who got spanked. It wasn’t long before that evolved into seeing who got spanked first, as we both would want a turn. Eventually we ditched the competition and would just spank each other. As it developed we started going from clothed to underwear to bare. It never turned sexual in any way as far as contact, although in the last couple of years he wanted us to just undress completely for the bare sessions, and I went along with it. Thinking back on it now, I kind of miss it. So I have become more and more open to the idea of having a same sex spanking session, but like others above, I would not want it to be sexual in any way. It seems such an encounter is somewhat difficult to find.
  4. I am also in this club. I don’t recall a specific moment, but I recall it always being there. I can only date it because I moved when I was six years old, and I can remember two specific occasions in the first house where I would try to dodge playful spankings (one was a birthday) but not really. My earliest memories of trying to engage in play spankings with neighborhood friends was right after that move. Then I have concrete memories of spanking events in every grade starting with grade 1, but none of those incidents were like the lightbulb - in every case I remember them being things that when they happened, I already knew I liked it (in second grade I actually lost a game on purpose at a church camp because the loser of said game was getting sent through the “spanking machine.”). For me, all of this has led to the certainty that I was born this way.
  5. They used wood. It happened. The episode is called Ladies Night at the Lodge, from Season 4, Episode 22. Seems someone still has a need to make money off Flintstones so the clip isn't available for free on YouTube anymore, but you can buy the episode on Apple or Google Play for a dollar I think. This episode was part of my childhood highlight reel.
  6. If you’re able to come to Aston I might be able to help
  7. I can relate in that I’ve found I really enjoy fulfilling an “older brother” type of role. I haven’t done it in the spanking community before but I’ve done it at work. If you’d like to chat about your situation I’d be happy to.
  8. also in regards to your flogger, you can always practice on a pillow or even the "bottom" of a stuffed bear or something if you have one that's big enough. Otherwise just have him lay flat and put a folded blanket or a pillow both above and below his butt and you should be OK.
  9. I think different people like different things but for me it's crucial to have a good thorough warmup. If I receive too hard too fast, I can't take as much and it's disappointing. Personally I also benefit from a short break after the warmup before getting more intense. Once I get past that point, I can take just about anything. Past that it probably just centers on communication and doing what he wants, which would include if he tells you to not ask him what he wants and for you to be fully in control, if that makes sense. :)
  10. I'm probably one of the few men just looking for platonic spanking friendships, and I wish I had more within this realm. I have a few, but they're all pretty much just penpals. One thing though that kind of blew my mind when I went to my first national spanking party was just having dinner and normal everyday conversation with people who you knew were spankos just because they were at the event. It's something that I'd never really experienced before.
  11. IIRC, I had to manipulate something in the app to search in a way that would make anything show up. It appears now in order to search like that you have to be a paid member, which I’m not, so I can’t say for sure now.
  12. The thing I've found about religion is that you can believe what you want to believe, but then a lot of times those beliefs change as you grow/get older/whatever. I'm not catholic, I've bounced around the protestant religions, but over time I have developed a healthy skepticism of non-Gospel portions of the Bible and have had my beliefs re-shaped by real life experiences. For instance 20-25 years ago I just went along with the church as far as the "homosexuality is a sin" thing because that's what they taught me in high school. However, I no longer believe that and in all honesty it's because of my spanking orientation - because I know what it's like to have an orientation that's not considered mainstream, in that I didn't choose to be like this and I can't choose to not be like this. I have been hardwired to this all my life, which to me means God made me this way and going by teachings, that's not a mistake. It's what made me realize that homosexuality is not a choice, that those people are made that way and that too is the way God made them, and is not a mistake. In the long run, whoever you feel the most comfortable talking to should be the one to talk to, whether it's a priest or not. I'm not sure any of us wants to dive too deep into theology here, but my view, for whatever it's worth, would be that any response you get from clergy about this subject based on interpretation of Scripture is just that - an interpretation. I would encourage you to significantly consider your real-world experience and how it might relate to that interpretation.
  13. the second video listed above is the method that I've used to some degree of success. Agree that a shorter cane can also accomplish it. Honestly for true effect the cane is the one reason I've considered ordering one of the spanking machines on the market, but I'm not in a living situation that would really permit me to order any one of them except for the smallest one that mounts to a table. If I were living on my own, I'd probably take the plunge on one as it seems to be the best way to get an effective caning.
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