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Bflogirl last won the day on April 1 2018

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  1. Bflogirl

    How many?

    I've been spanked by 5 people. I've been the -er only two times 2 people both as "favors" for switches
  2. Bflogirl

    First Spanking

    Crying is more an emotional response than physical pain so it really depends on you, your ER and what kind of connection you have. I have never cried but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. I'd say don't be nervous but I know you probably will be. Just remember punishment is given for a reason with a purpose from someone who wants you to make better choices/decisions. Also the best part to remember for the -ee is your aftercare and knowing you are forgiven and cared for.
  3. Bflogirl

    Anybody else find being a spanko lonely?

    I am not in a committed relationship at this time so I have formed several friendships with fellow spankos from this site and a few others. It's great to have those people to talk about this with. I understand it'd be different if I was still in a committed vanilla relationship. I also have committed to not getting into a pure vanilla relationship again so I plan on this being a part of my life in the future because I would definitely feel lonely without being able to discuss the one thing I'm truly passionate about lol.
  4. Happy New Year to all! 2018 wasnt so bad I finally embraced my desires and started getting spanked! 

    1. MisterVince


      Happy 2019!! 

    2. BlackSATX


      Sometimes things have a way of working out!  Hope 2019 is just as satisfying...

  5. Bflogirl

    Spanking Bucket List

    Day or night? Makes a big difference trust me!
  6. Bflogirl

    Spanking Bucket List

    I know right!? How old is too old to still get spankings? I don't want to be that!
  7. Bflogirl

    New here, but not new to spanking

  8. Bflogirl

    Vanilla term

    Silly question maybe but do non spankos/kinksters know what "vanilla" is? Or do you not know that term until you are no longer vanilla? Lol just curious as I might want more like minded friends in the future and not sure how to pick one out without outing myself in the process!
  9. Someday, Somehow, Somewhere --Someone will come into my life that, really gets it. Gets what I need, what, I want and what I don't. 

    Until then I wait (and have some fun)


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    2. AfterGeometry


      Bflogirl, I have those exact same hopes and desires, from my perspective. Well said. ?

    3. Gator


      that is the perfect attitude! best of luck in your search :)

    4. Bflogirl


      Thanks guys ❤

  10. Bflogirl

    Hey! New here :)

    Welcome! Hope you can find what you are looking for, stay safe and have fun!!
  11. Bflogirl

    Like vs. Want vs. Need

    All of the above Need Want Like But each is of course different types
  12. Bflogirl


    Mary FEMALE 43 and not afraid to admit I still need discipline Buffalo NY suburbs SPANKEE by males only preferably older than me
  13. Bflogirl

    A re-introduction after some time away

    Welcime, what a great (re)introduction? Hope you find that lucky girl.
  14. Bflogirl

    Is it desperation or prefetence?

    Well some people don't have any spankos in their real life so meeting "strangers" is the only way to find it. However you are correct an emotional connection is key so yes need to get to know them first and meet in public to talk. It takes time but is possible, of course safety first.