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selfsp12 last won the day on November 27 2019

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    N.E.
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    Spankee

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  1. I find standing, maybe bent forrward slightly works best for me. I use a bath brush or a paddle. When I was starting out self spanking I tried to put all of the power into swinging my arm and spanking both sides with the same arm. Arm git tired well before it started to hurt. I found a bath brush or paddle easier to learn to use with eother hand, even if oyu are not ambidextrous. It took some practice. Alos really helpful is shorter swing of the arm and a good flick of the wrist. Less arm movement so your arms don't get as tired but the wrist flick gives a good whallop. Be happy to share over PM.
  2. It's 2022, and my it be haelthy and happy for everyone. Now if you had a spanking wish for 2022 what would it be? Either a situation/scene, type of spanking, particular implements, etc. Any spanking you wanted, whether it is likely to happen or not, what would your 2022 spanking wish be? For me, however unlikely, it would be to be told to lie flat on the bed with pillows under me so my derriere was up in the air. Have a nice stiff, thick, cool leathr belt laid accross both cheeks and slowly drawn off to the side. Silence, then maybe hear a slight whoosh and the loud crack as the belt lands and sits accross me again as the process repeats. Some how the cool leather accross a hot bottom and feeling it slide off knowing another painful smack is coming seems like the ultimate and quintessential spanking. Not that I've though about much. How about you?
  3. @cat627 Thank you for sharing that great example of self empowerment. I think you should give yourself alot of credit. It sounds like you've survived alot of trauma and other bad experiences in your life and are coming through on top. Spanking or not, that right there is a huge win, whre unfortunately far too many people don't make it trhough. Everything that happens has an impact on us in some way, somethimes good, sometimes more challanging. To me you've survived and prospered, sometime with a sore bottom and sometimes without that aid, and that is great. Look in the mirror and cheer for yourself, and always see the good in you and your sizeable accomplishments. I say congradulations are in order. Best, Selfsp.
  4. I count for self spankings, but only for curiosity. I like to know how many spanks I'm doing. I does not, for me, interfere with my headspace or ability to relax. I view it as the ER part of me is counting, the EE part is absorbing the spank and 'sinking' into the relaxation and enjoyment of the spanking.
  5. Self spanking I have lots of experience with, so I certianly have the same fantasy of getting caught and getting, what would be my first, a spanking from my wife. The embarrasement of getting caught, and then the 'let me help you out' would fill two fantasies. Love her dearly, but quite vanilla with no desire to spank me. Of course for a long time I had no idea this was something I wanted and needed. Hope your fantasy becomes reality some time.
  6. Thanks Stephen. It has not become boring and routine, fortunately. I think the way I feel during and after keeps that from happening, I guess at least for now. I'm a firm believer in moderation in almost everything. I guess I'm concerned I'm past or passing the "moderation" point. I'm also concerned about damage from over doing it or developing a psychological dependency on it. The current stressors should start to ease over the next few weeks, when hopefully things will return to a more moderate level.
  7. Thanks Stephen. It has not become boring and routine, fortunately. I think the way I feel during and after keeps that from happening, I guess at least for now. I'm a firm believer in moderation in almost everything. I guess I'm concerned I'm past or passing the "moderation" point. I'm also concerned about damage from over doing it or developing a psychological dependency on it. The current stressors should start to ease over the next few weeks, when hopefully things will return to a more moderate level.
  8. I know a spanking itself is too much when the spankee's hard limits have been exceeded; be they level of pain, marking, bruising, etc. I'm not asking about that. My question is when you get spanked frequently when is it too much, each individual spanking remains with, in this case, my hard limits. First off I self spank for stress relief, relaxation, and enjoyment. I cannot really define where one ends and the next begins. The reasons overlap. The past 3 weeks or so have been very stressful and my need for a spanking has been so high I can almost taste it, it is palpable. To give you an idea, in the 22 days so far in November my bottom has been spanked on 19 of those days, a total of 47 spankings for an average of 2.6 spankings a day. I consider a session a separate spanking versus part of a continuing session, when there is more then about 30 to 45 minutes between parts, or when it is a a big change in implement, for example plastic hair brush to a wooden bath brush. If more then 15 minutes or so between that would count as 2 spankings, not 2 parts of one. The lowest day was 1 spanking, the highest 5. The shortest spanking was 30 (counting both cheeks,, the longest 500 with an average of 172 (again counting both cheeks}. Most are mild, some have been fairly hard leaving it uncomfortable (to some degree) to site for a few hours. None have left bruising or marking that last beyond a couple of hours. On most the redness disappears (mostly) within an hour. So my question, when does spanking frequently become too much that I should start to be concerned about damage or 'becoming addicted' to spanking?
  9. I have to agree, the Haven bath brush form BB&B really packs a whallop. For a hard spanking that's my go to.
  10. Walking through any store and seeing hair brushes, bath brushes, belts, kitchen spoons or spatulas all make me think of how they would work and feel for a self-spanking. It's like automatic evaluation that is it passes I wonder should I get it and try it.
  11. I'd wish I could get a real spanking. I fanaticize about getting one, but usually after a good hard self-spanking. I'd really like to know how a hard self spanking compares to a similar real spanking. But, we do what we need to. Self spanking is an important stress relief valve for me, plus I do enjoy a good spanking.
  12. @Zhal I hear you. I feel fortunate that I can. different strokes (punny huh?) for different folks. I'm sorry that yoy can't.
  13. My question with the chart is how frequency of spankings effects the color of a particular spanking. I self spank frequently, like daily sometimes more then once. My sit spots are always at least slightly pink. In general my spankings take me to a 4 or 5. Even a hard spanking with a heavy wood bath brush does not get me to a 6. Is that because I just cannot spank myself hard enough, or my bottom is used to sound spankings so it just won't go red versus deep pink?
  14. My question with the chart is how frequency of spankings effects the color of a particular spanking. I self spank frequently, like daily sometimes more then once. My sit spots are always at least slightly pink. In general my spankings take me to a 4 or 5. Even a hard spanking with a heavy wood bath brush does not get me to a 6. Is that because I just cannot spank myself hard enough, or my bottom is used to sound spankings so it just won't go red versus deep pink?
  15. @rubyredd, @StrictGent people after my own heart. Other things, like work, get in the way of multiple spankings a day. Of course since I self spank I do have somewhat greater flexibility.
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