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selfsp12

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selfsp12 last won the day on November 27 2019

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  • Age
    57
  • Location
    N.E.
  • Gender
    Male
  • Experience
    Regular
  • Role
    Spankee
  • Looking for
    Casual Spanking
  • Spanker/ spankee preference?
    Female
    No gender or gender identity preference.
  • Sexual Orientation
    Straight
  • Relationship
    Married
  • D/s Dynamic(s)
    Presently Inactive

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  1. My father in law has a saying. There is a direct connection between the tush and the brain. I guess he's right.
  2. For me getting spanked is quite emotional. That is part of the benefit for me and part of why it is such powerful experience. Spankings for me are for stress relief. It helps me get my emotions "in order", and "wrap by head" around what I'm feeling, and I deal with them subconsciously while the spanking is in progress.
  3. I just happened to be coming from the doctor before going home to my fate. The spanking was for a bunch of things, and I'll definitely remember each and every one (of the things, and spanks).
  4. As I left the doctor's office and headed to my car, I felt myself start to walk slower. I knew I had a long and hard spanking coming when I got home. I felt anticipatory dread. As I drove i was unsure if I wanted traffic to push it off, or no traffic to get it started and finished sooner. My stomach had butterflies, and I felt a certain tickle in my tushy, like I was already starting to feel the initial effects. I arrived home, I knew the routine. Right upstairs, get the 'toys' that would be used, and get undressed. In position, and 25 long minutes later, with a break the spanking was over, and I was very sore. Fifteen minutes with a hand paddle with holes and two bath brushes (ow, ooooch) About a 10 minute break and 5 minutes with the belt (really ouch). My bottom was quite warm and was deep red with white splotches on the sit spots, and other splotches elsewhere. Sitting was going to be memorable for a long time to come, even clenching my cheeks hurt. The spanking was over, and no words had been said, none were needed.
  5. To my understanding, if it is not mutually consenting and without any form of coercion, it is assault or abuse and would be illegal (at least in the NE).
  6. I have never been able to spank myself to tears. I'd like to experience it at some point. However, since self-spanking does provide the emotional release I need, a good sound spanking is still quite effective.
  7. I'm late returning to this party. I was spanked as a very young child, at the time i think I acted to be spanked to get attention since I knew (on some level) that I was an unwanted child. By 4 I was adopted, wanted and loved, and never spanked. Much later in life when stress and anxiety become over whelming, this want, desire, need came up. Over time I got good at and found it helpful and pleasurable. My wife knows in some part of her that I like this, but she will not help and does not acknowledge it. After over 30 years of marriage, that is ok.
  8. Even if the EE in question, likes being spanked in general. A hard punishment spanking (with some surrounding formality - as agreed to) may be enjoyed on one level, but still not liked and therefore be the catalyst @EnglishSpanker referred to,
  9. My spanking bucket list; 1. get a good hard real (as versus self) spanking; a long hand more mild hand spanking, like 30 minutes or so A hard belt spanking a nice sound brush spanking. rinse and repeat as often as possible.
  10. I am grateful to have the meditation method that I have, even if it is a pain in the butt.
  11. There has been a lot of drama and a lot of stress in my house recently. I don't like drama but invariably get pulled into the middle with a target on my front and back, just waiting for the bullseyes to be scored. This morning I took the opportunity for a good, sound, hard spanking. My mind cleared and moved into the moment. Each spank hurt, but the only sound was the ouch that ensued with each one. The only thought was not how long it will continue or if it will hurt, it was where precisely on my bottom will it land. That incredible interplay of pain and pleasure that brings total relaxation. Afterward I lay down enjoying the lingering pain and the cool air, and the huge relief. The drama was worked out, but even if it reoccurs I have the formula to relax.
  12. I understand that. My wife is not into spanking. Which might be good, because if she was I'd probably never sit again.
  13. What do you do after a good hard self spanking? Do you finish and go back to what you were doing before,? Sit on a hard surface to continue the experience? Stand or lay down and rub to enjoy the head space your are in or diminish the sting? Admire your handiwork? For me I like to lay down and rub my bottom as it keeps me in the relaxed head space for longer. Any other post spanking routines?
  14. Seems like mostly general porn, which personally I'm not interested in. i prefer just spanking with no sexual/porn type content in the videos. Anything else anyone can reccomend?
  15. I self spank because I like to be spanked, or to be more precise, feel of a good sound spanking. The general term for that is a self-spanker. What if you, is this a thing, self spank because you like to give a spanking and you are the only one you can give it to?
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