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LateBloomer last won the day on November 9 2019

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  1. I'm still not seeing the forgiveness. When does that come?
  2. I am an EE but not a submissive and there is no HoH in my marriage, so perhaps I just don't understand the dynamic. What I am not seeing in the above is forgiveness or affection. Isn't the HoH supposed to put the needs of the submissive first? What am I missing?
  3. I have met real people from this site. In one case I emailed him directly. He was experienced and asked me lots of questions over many weeks. In the other case we used PM and eventually switched to email, then eventually to text. I think it is harder for male ERs to reach out because they are one of a thousand fishes in the sea and have to prove they are not perving (is that a word?). Be a gentleman (I don't mean chauvinistic). And I agree with rubyred - forearms can be very appealing.
  4. I voted that I was lonely but was able to cope emotionally. I picked this because I'm well into adulthood, so in the long run I coped. There were times when I receded into my own world - not sure if that is coping.
  5. I'm banned because I was going to ban AG for banning Zhev about being a stickler but I didn't and SpankeeGal did. If two of us thought of it independently, then it must mean AG needed to be banned. I should have followed my instincts.😞
  6. I have the older-man fantasy, which gets harder and harder as I get older. But age isn't a big deal if I am sure it isn't a problem for the ER. I have been uncomfortable entertaining males who are close to the age of my children (twenties). That just seems wrong to me (for me and them). But this too will get harder and harder as I age. My current mentor is female and more than 20 years my junior.
  7. Then it wasn't punishment. It was play.
  8. This scenario would either be abuse or a-dream-come-true, depending upon the woman. In my opinion, (forced) acts of sexual intimacy are not appropriate as punishment. In fact, the whole punishment-help-to-be-a-better-person dynamic is lost when sex is integrated into it. This is more of power and control role play, or as I said, abuse.
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