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  1. Need some advice:  When dating a vanilla with possible spanking tendencies, when do you ask about spanking and how?   Or do I just not cross that line and just see what happens?  Honestly, I haven’t thought much about it since we started dating.  Things are getting pretty serious now though.  

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    2. Needsitbad


      I remember some advice from many years ago...watch a mainstream movie with a spanking reference or scene and gauge the result.  That is not fool proof but a good start

    3. JeansSmacker


      That sounds like a good idea.  

    4. JeansSmacker


      Or you could always try presenting your behind to him in provocative postures and see how he reacts...


  2.  I happen to agree with your last sentence. We are talking about a total package.  In my own case, I have had a long and very satisfactory marriage - not perfect; very satisfactory.  I would have liked spanking to be part of it but we were never able to reach a good arrangement, so it hasn't been. Considering all the many other strengths of the relationship, and even though this is a spanking site, I am happy with the trade-offs.



  3. Kinda seeing a vanilla, wondering if he will be open to spanking.  Wondering if I could have a forever relationship without it.  Don’t know unless you try I guess. 

    1. Gator


      if you need spanked badly then asking a vanilla to do it is the best way. no sense in asking someone who knows how to give you a proper spanking! :D


    2. xntrick


      Watch '9 1/2 Weeks' with him and see how he reacts.

    3. Gator


      even better is Secretary - more of a spanko flick whereas 9 1/2 Weeks is more about Power Exchange

  4. Welcome and good luck! Tampa is a great place.
  5. Shygirl has it so right! 😊.
  6. That moment when you know something is going to get you into trouble, but you just can’t stop yourself from saying it....

  7. Why do people ghost?  Like you are talking and things are going great and then nothing just poof.   They are totally gone. Why can’t people just be real and say “hey, I am done talking to you and I am going to move on.”  Ugh. 

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    2. DaChief


      Ghosting's been going on in spanking communities since before that term was coined. I always wrote it up to people getting cold feet over the notion of actually getting out of their house, going somewhere and meeting with a living, breathing person with whom they'd actually turn this from fantasy to reality. 

    3. AfterGeometry


      NEVER let their ghosting be a reflection on you.  It is ALWAYS a lack of integrity and guts on their part.   It is -always- on them.  

    4. josephdscpln


      I agree completely, I hate it when people ghost me and I wouldn't do it to someone else. Delayed responses I can understand (I'm guilty of this from time to time), but not ghosting.

  8. Ya, a flair is definitely something way different with very different symptoms.
  9. I get the same thing after I get spanked especially if it’s an intense spanking. I do have autoimmune issues. It goes away pretty quickly afterwards so I really never thought anything about it. It’s probably just the body’s response to something happening that is heating everything up and getting your heart rate up etc. As soon as my body calms down it goes away.
  10. I have never had a session broken up like that, but I think it would totally stress me out. I am one that if I’m in trouble, I want to get it dealt with and have a clean slate to start over with and then I try really hard to keep it clean. Getting a really intense spanking and then knowing that was only half of it and I still had it hanging over my head, would probably really bother me a lot. But I deal with things a lot differently than most do. I am a big time people pleaser and I never want anyone upset with me. I lose sleep if I think some random person that I don’t even know may be upset with me. Lol.
  11. I’m so glad everything worked out! This community is amazing and I would have been so sad to lose it. Thank you to everyone who helps to keep it running!
  12. I can log into my account again!!!   

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    2. spanking lady

      spanking lady

      ok ' because I think every member here has limited space on this page. I'm always deleting old messages to make room for new ones.

    3. Ineedspankedbadly


      Yep, I’m totally ok with that. 😊.  

    4. spanking lady

      spanking lady

      I'm ready


  13. I am a bbw in tampa who has been in the lifestyle long enough to know a few things. I am not looking for sex at all. I am looking to receive spankings and possibly give a spanking to the right guy. I am only interested in guys around my age and not married (do not lie to me about your marriage). I’m a pretty laid back girl who likes to laugh, so if you have a good sense of humor and a dominant not over domineering personality, we would get along. Lol. Am I asking too much?
  14. With me, if I’m not in trouble and I could have a say in it...lol. I’d like there to be more of a warm up so I could take more and then honestly sometimes I want it harder and longer when I’m not in trouble. When I’m in trouble for something it’s all a mental thing and my brain kicks in. When it’s a good girl thing or a stress relief or whatever, I don’t get that panicked feeling and I relax and I can take way more and I want it/need it. But it’s all in who the spankee is. Some may just want a playful spanking, some may be like me. Hope you have fun though.
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