Cavsalltheway23

I met a girl who I am dating who is into spanking. She loves being spanked and also likes to spank but she is new to it. She just found out that she likes to spank. How do I explain to her how to be in control? She can spank well but she doesent seem to "run the show"

I am wondering when you think you should talk about your spanking interest with a new partner?

That is pretty humilating. I got a birthday spanking from my mother while I was still In my boxers at 18 but still not as bad

What tips do you have for dishing out disciplininary spankings? I have spanked a few different women on numerous occations. I know how to increase the intensity at a gradule level and sense out their pain tolerance. But what do you have for tips.

So I am going to be meeting a couple in a few months when they take a trip to visit Maine. She loves to teach women how to properly spank a guy. I would basically be who you practice your skills on lol. She could show you by spanking me or spanking her husband at the same time as you spank me. She is very experienced at being the one in charge in a relationship.

Are you from Maine? Do you love spankings? We should meet if so. I am a major spanko! I love spanking women. It can be for more fun and cathargic or it can be more severe as in a discipline spanking. And be warned it will be a real spanking! If you are a female who spanks you are in luck because I am a switch and a willing to be on the receiving end. I can travel anywhere in Maine but located near Augusta/Waterville area.

I had never heard of those!

I was wondering what it is like getting spanked by multiple people (same time/event) I was considering getting spanked by a guy for while (I am straight.) Well now I got a offer to be spanked by a women who also wants her husband to spank me as well. A double spanking would be pretty intense I can only imagine. I feel like I would be more comfortable there with a women as well than just alone with another man.

That is pretty interesting! But I feel like players would probably fear even telling their story. If they found out any professional player was getting spanked/paddled/caned that news would be huge. So would you really want the whole world to know you got spanked by the coach.. I could see it being something they would not want to publically share.

You make some good points. I wont know until I try. And then I would know for sure. I do get nervous about things so that may make me nauseous. I feel like it could be beneficial from a punishment side but I wouldnt like it I do not think.

I just feel like the whole thing would end up being upcomfortable/awkward. Something about women I just feel more comfortable around in general. I think it might just be the willingness to submit. As a man I think we naturally try to always be tough. We try not show a weak side. We are very competitive whether it be who is faster,stronger,bigger,tougher, etc. We are always competing almost like who is top dog. I use do some boxing and MMA when I was younger. I feel like naturally as a guy you always size up your opponents. Nothing against women as fighters I just would never hurt one physically or even consider fighting. So I guess it is easier to get the mindset of just submitting to a women. Because I am not gonna try to fight with her. And it is not like I am physically going to try to fight a guy in the same situation. But I think it goes into maintaining the tough guy mindset around other guys. You just dont want to be submissive naturally. Sorry it is all hard to explain exactly 😅

That is why I have passed in the past. But I think its the spanking itself that intrigues me. But it might just be the thought of being spanked. I am a switch but have no desire to spank men just women.

I do worry that I might end up not liking it all. Its hard for me to see myself comfortably with a guy doing anything.

Thanks for all that. You make good points. He is not the closest. And I dont know him great but we have talked quite a few times and I have talked to others who have met him. They say he gives out a real father like spanking. I would rather meet with women but cannot find any women spanker around my area.

This is more intended for guys. As I am a man. Straight so I do not want anything sexual. But I have considered getting spanked by a guy. And I know a guy who is willing to do it. What should I know before hand? I know about discussing limits. Just not exactly sure how I feel about getting spanked by another man... I have thought about it many times. But often feel like I might regret it for some reason.