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Rook

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Rook last won the day on October 30 2018

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  1. Rook

    Back Again

    Hello all, For those who do not know me I am a male spanker aged 24. I am back again, offering my spanking services to any ladies located off of the East Coast. I am an adaptive spanker able to adjust my methods to accompany the needs of the spankee. I am willing to give most any type of spanking from punishment to stress relief and anything in-between. I travel and host in hotels anywhere off of the easy coast of the USA. Although those located further from me, I cannot promise frequent visits. Do not expect spankings immediately after contact. I like to talk and get to know my spankees be
  2. Alright thanks for the feedback. I dont usually frequent forums, so I was not sure. Got my answer.
  3. So I want to know everyone's opinion on something. So Ive made a few posts in the past offering my services as a top. Whenever I make one of these post I usually get a few people who are interested with in the first few weeks, then the replies start drying up. Then after a while if things ended or didnt work out with the past people who contacted me. I would make a new similar post. again offer my services and the cycle would repeat. Now this leads me to my question. Is it making multiple posts like that too much, even if they are after a decent period of time? If it is, then is there a b
  4. What do you do so that if the thoughts or desires return you turn them away? Self control. If I have deiced that it is not what I want in my life for whatever reason and it comes up. I tell myself I do not want it, It is not good for me, it is not who I am or what I want to be, and I walk away. You need to be 100% sure it is what you want and commit. Some habits/behaviors get programmed into our minds whether naturally, malignantly, accidentally, ect... When you engage in the behavior, you reinforce it. When you deny them, you weaken them. At first it is difficult but over time the behavi
  5. This is a very common question, yet one I rarely see answered well. I find that a lot of people when asking the question don't really want an answer. What they want is validation. I would say many people are unwilling/unable to dig deep and figure out why. It takes a lot of self knowledge and the ability to be honest with ones self. As for the reason why. It will vary person to person. Everyone while possibly having similar experiences, each have unique experiences. There are some overall arching reason why it happens. But to figure out why it happened to you. That will take self reflection.
  6. Yes many times. I cannot say I have a method per-say. I just take a long look at myself and think about it. If I come to a conclusion that leads to quitting, then I stop.The success varies. I have taken breaks many times. Ranging from months to years without engaging. Ultimately I always come back to it in some form. Why? Well at first it was because I didn't understand the underlying reasons for why it manifested in the first place. Now after knowing why, I am back again only because I want to come to a final conclusion as to whether it has a place in my life. If I decide not, then with all c
  7. Yes many times. I cannot say I have a method per-say. I just take a long look at myself and think about it if I come to a conclusion that leads to quitting, then I stop. The success varies. I have taken breaks many times ranging from months to years without engaging. Ultimately I also came back to it in some form. Why? Well at first it was because I didnt understand the underlying reasons for why it manifested i the first place. Now after knowing why, I am back again only because I want to come to a final conclusion as to whether it has a place in my life. If I decide not, then with all c
  8. A for a past "vanilla" relationship I had, I took things one small step at a time when we became intimate. She was very open to trying new things in bed so it wasn't too difficult. When talking about our past I causally brought up spanking to gauge a response. A couple days later, causally brought up light spanking during intimacy. That moved to different spanking positions, then bringing up implement. I started with basic little things like a wooden spoon or more kink type things like a ridding crop. I kept moving a little deeper casually bringing up different spanking topics until eventually
  9. "it is a bombardment of nudity in all forms." Now I am not faint of heart or anything and I am no puritan as well. But this is one of the top reasons I have avoided even looking in fetlife's direction. I do not like using websites that run like pornsites. Makes me feel sleazy. That's the reason why my only real presence in the "spanking world" is here. There's just more class.
  10. No, I am not looking for a long term partner. If some feeling were to develop we would cross that bridge if/when it happens. Defiantly not my intent. Now tinder and other dating sites. Yes, I have "heard" you can do that. But I have yet to see a success story. Tinder is awful. It is hard enough to get basic conversation let alone anything specific. If you are average or less in looks, then completely forget about it. Because even if you are above average or a super model it is hard as a guy. Now if you are willing to put money down on some of the paid benefits, you might maybe see an incr
  11. *I had recently had a large wad of cash for putting a down payment on a car. I was slapping it against my hand and wondered if anyone had used a wad of cash to spank someone before. Defiantly wouldn't be used for anything serious, but would be interesting.I also have 2 knives with handmade leather sheaths. They can be used like small handheld straps and provide a good sting.
  12. Defiantly agree with this. Maybe they are more appealing do to it is what most people have grown up seeing, thinking, or hearing about. I had recently had a large wad of cash for putting a down payment on a car. I has slapping it against my hand and wondered if anyone had used a wad of cash to spank someone before. Defiantly wouldn't be used for anything serious, but would be interesting. Also I have a 2 knives with handmade leather sheaths. They can be used like small handheld straps and provide a good sting.
  13. I believe it would mean more "thorough" and "effective".
  14. What is the situation with munches and spanking parties? I am currently serious about finding a spanking partner. I feel as if I have exhausted my possibilities on finding a partner through the net. A lot of people have referred me to go to fetlife and find varying spanking events. Is this a good option? What are people's experiences with them? How do they work? What is the age demographic? I never wanted to engage in this previously because my anonymity is very important to me. I dont like meeting anyone in this area of my life unless I have had the time to look them over. It feels risky in m
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