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DDatl

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About DDatl

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    32
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    Atlanta
  • Gender
    Male
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    Regular
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    Spanker

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  1. I always tell spankees to behave themselves and not be a brat while they are being punished. But the truth is I like a little bit of bratting. I spanked a girl a few months ago who was so fun to spank. She just had this sorta bratty attitude the whole time almost like "how dare you spank me". She just kept making cute little "Hmmmmphhhh" noises and I really enjoyed it. But it can easily go too far. If the spankee is acting too bratty during a spanking its just letting me know the spanking is not working. And then as a result I spank them harder until she learns how to behave.
  2. Breaking up is difficult, picture it like a drug withdrawal. Someone who is going through a drug withdrawal would say whatever you wanted to hear if it would get them more of the drug. Obviously disciplining you was not something he cared about otherwise he would have done it while you were with him. To his credit maybe he actually believes he is making some kind of bold move here. But its very likely his newfound enthusiasm for spanking will go away or diminish as soon as he gets what he wants. I hate to call someone I dont know desperate, but thats what it sounds like to me.
  3. Oh my god....thats horrible!
  4. It crazy to me that people with a spanking/discipline fetish are so rare. Being a spanko often feels like a blessing but it also feels like curse. I want to be in happy meaningful relationship and for that to happen spanking and discipline have to be a part of it. I don’t even waste my time with vanilla girls anymore, I know that will lead to an unsatisfying relationship. Then if I want to talk to spanko girls they live all over the country. Meeting one that lives nearby seems to be almost impossible. I’ve been talking to non-local girls for a couple years now, it seems like the only way to find the relationship Im looking for. But even then, there aren’t many people who are interested in starting a long-distance relationship. So as a result, I’m feeling trapped. I’m really lonely and I feel like I’m being forced to stay this way. My friends and family don’t understand. They don’t know the details of why I’m single so they just think I’m incapable of dating. My friends tried to set me up with this really cute vanilla girl. I actually like her and I went out with her a few times but I know better than to go down that path. On one hand I want to give up but on the other hand I want a domestic discipline relationship more than anything. Does anyone have any advice? Am I doing the right thing holding out and waiting to meet a spanko girl or am I just wasting years of my life?
  5. You should make a separate email for all of your kinky websites, then you wont have to worry about it. But it is a real website, the community is not very good but it is real.
  6. It is BDSM but it feels so different from what the majority of people into BDSM are into. I used to say I wasn't into BDSM just because I had such an aversion for the master/slave dungeon torture vibe. But when I really thought about it I realized Im just into a different type of BDSM. Its a shame though because most of the population only thinks of that dark version of BDSM. Ive told a couple vanilla people I was into dominance/submission because I didn't want to say I have a spanking fetish. And their minds instantly start thinking of me degrading and beating women.
  7. Im a disciplinarian located in Atlanta, GA. Not too far away from you.
  8. Looking to meet girls into spanking and Domestic Discipline. I am interested in meeting friends and play partners but I would really love to find a relationship. I am open to talking to people who live long distance, because it seems like the only way to find the relationship I want. I have been into spanking as long as I can remember. I am looking for a girl I can take care of when she behaves but put over my knee when she is bad. Send me a message if you are interested in talking.
  9. Hello, I am 33 year old male dominant spanko from Atlanta. I am looking for play partners and girls who need discipline but I would love to find a domestic discipline relationship with the right person. I am looking long distance because its not easy meeting girls into DD. So please send me a message if you are interested in talking.
  10. That is pretty funny actually. Obviously its completely stupid, why would anyone think they can get a site taken down because they dont like it? But reading through the comments did make me think a bit. I wonder to what degree everyone's spanking fetish has been amplified by the internet. I mean, I had strong spanking fantasies before I found spanking websites. But surly it has effected me in a number of ways I am probably unaware of.
  11. Hey, Im a spanker in Atlanta. Im sending you a message
  12. I wish I had known more when I was younger about how to look for other people into spanking. All through my early to late 20's I thought my only option was to try to meet a vanilla girl who would be open to it. I didnt really know there were females out there who were into the same things. So, I do feel like I wasted a lot of time. Someone needs to make an online course for new spankos on all the different ways to meet other people into spanking. Luckily I had one guy reach out to me after I asked for help on fetlife and he gave me some really good advice. Otherwise I dont know where would be....
  13. I wish I had known more when I was younger about how to look for other people into spanking. All through my early to late 20's I thought my only option was to try to meet a vanilla girl who would be open to it. I didnt really know there were females out there who were into the same things. So, I do feel like I wasted a lot of time. Someone needs to make an online course for new spankos on all the different ways to meet other people into spanking. Luckily I had one guy reach out to me after I asked for help on fetlife and he gave me some really good advice. Otherwise I dont know where would be....
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