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Xtreme Tantrums Result in Additional Spankings LAPSE

Of course if a young man her own age should appear on the scene who receives the same discipline and they bond and eventually travel on together, there could be a number of additional episodes. H.

Cocky One Messes Er's Skirt SPREAD

In this situation, it would seem that a pro is the obvious solution. In any event, I entirely agree with everyone who has said that the answer to your original question is: NO. -H.

I agree with Explorify. I would add that one mark of a real professional is that she allows ample time for discussion both before and after the physical part of the session. H.

Consider clamping it hard between your thighs while he is over your lap. And spank hard. For most people most of the time, that should do it. If needed, proceed to spanking with implements until he is soft. Then if he wants it addressed, you can tease him that he isn't such a proud male anymore. H.

Consider clamping it hard between your thighs while he is over your lap. And spank hard. For most people most of the time, that should do it. If needed, proceed to spanking with implements until he is soft. Then if he wants it addressed, you can tease him that he isn't such a proud male anymore. H.

Ordinarily, I would just join those who have "liked" the most recent post in this thread. But it is so important that I have submitted a separate reply just to keep it nearer the top of the forums board when people drop by. Whether male or female, top or bottom, TTWD is no area in which to skimp on precautions. H.

Of course, circumstances vary. It happens, though, that some of my most intense emotional experiences in either role have been when the 'ee is owning the spankng by agreeing in detail that it is deserved and why. Otherwise, there is sometimes a risk that, rather than getting into an appropriate headspace, the 'ee is just toughing it out and in effect emerging at some level as the defiant winner of the power exchange. H.

The two solutions may be aimed at two different physical problems, leaving the mental aspect wholly aside. Bladder-emptying should do it for most males to avoid arousal. Requiring him to relieve himself sexually should increase the pain of the spanking itself. H.

FWIW, my advice is that you do adopt the plan of requiring him to relieve himself first. That will emphasize the unusual seriousness of this occasion both by being a variation on your usual routine and by increasing the level of physical pain. -H.

The offense does seem serious. My thinking would be that you: (a) Replace the brush with one that will hurt more. (Once you provide details of the prior one, others on this site will be able to assist on that issue) and (b) Kneel humbly in front of him in whatever state of undress he may require, kiss the implement, apologize and tell him you will accept whatever punishment he deems appropriate, hand the new brush to him and take as well as you may that which you know you deserve. -H.

Makes sense to me. Someone's mother has known their naked body since birth. Someone's stepmother removing (or demanding the removal of) the shorts of a male whom she may not have met until his teens and who is now well past puberty is a whole different matter. H.

Agreed. I have had a naked woman stand facing the wall with her arms above her head for a paddling, I have supported her by keeping my hand firmly between her legs. When this has been intended as non-sexual but an assertion of control on my part, it has been received that way. She has felt more completely dominated but not molested. H.