Stern_Dad_SF

Have you ever seen this NYT article about revealing a spanking fetish to a partner? Might be a helpful entry point into the conversation. https://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/fashion/modern-love-a-spanking-fetish-is-not-revealed-easily.html

“I’m going to put you over my knee...” is a favorite phrase when said with authority, because it’s clear what the outcome will be, but omits the actual verb.

San Francisco’s Folsom Street Fair is pretty legendary, but I would describe it as more of a leather/BDSM event than a “spanking event.” My sense is that most of the clubs and meetups have a dungeon or LGBQT slant to them, which fine but isn’t my cup of tea. I gather that NYC and Texas have more spanking-centric groups and parties. If other Bay Area locals have insight that I’m missing, please enlighten me.

I gave a spanking similar to this in Golden Gate park once, but it was over a U-shaped bike rack. Thrilling on its own, but even more so with the threat of being seen.

For all you Bay Area/NorCal peeps, this event might be of interest. Thought I’d share: https://www.immersivedesignweek.com/calendar/sat-feb-22-7pm-safe-x-brave-sexuality-in-immersive-design

You’ve found the right place to share and explore those feelings. Welcome.

Omg. I feel like Marty waking up in 1985, after a week in dystopian future! Nice to see the familiar site. Thanks to all that worked on it.

won't share here, but i'll share in PM. I'm in SF proper. Come here often?

Hi, I’m in San Francisco.

Hi Ray, welcome to the site. Congratulations on stepping out of your comfort zone.

Welcome Cosima. I'm new here to, but I gather that you've come to the right place to confide your secret desires, and explore your fantasies.

Hi All, I'm new to this site but not new to spanking. Looking forward to chatting and hopefully making some new friends, who share the same...interest. You may know me as the normal looking guy walking down the street, who you'd never expect to be dreaming about putting a young lady over his knee. ps - i'm warm and friendly by nature. only stern when appropriate. don't be afraid to say hello.