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    Caning fans?

    As stated in the replys, canes are not all alike. The thinner they are, the more of a sting they impart 1/4" diameter for example stings like bees having a field day on your butt. The 3/8" diameter stings less, but imparts deeper pain as it is heavier than the 1/4" one. The welts are also wider, and if swing full force, will feel absolutely incredibly painful. After 24 with this cane, you are twisting and grunting loudly for it to stop. We also have a senior cane, that's 1/2" diameter. This cane is very thuddy, and gives the muscles of your bottom a deep, lasting pain, without much sting to the skin. You will feel these for three to four days afterwards. The last cane we have is a 3/8" dragon cane. It is a denser, heavier cane stock, that as its name implys, has a severe sting and a deep impact. Six with this cane can leave you swearing never wanting a caning ever again. I'd say compared to the regular 3/8" cane, it has about a three fold higher severity. My Lady uses it very sparingly on me so far, the regular cane being her instrument of choice. She can swing it quite firmly, accurately and leave me closer to tears with it. Still fresh in my memory a couple nights ago, she gave me 24 with it after thirty hard hairbrush. A very effective albeit short punishment, that left me panting and moaning long after she was done. If used without being vicious as in some videos that are basically torturing those poor models with full force severe strokes, a cane can be a very quiet, effective tool. If your struggling with accuracy, simply choke down on the shaft or shorten the cane. Ours are all around 30- 36" long, from England, so they are very high quality and whippy canes. I suggest buying from there, as they are simply the very best and well worth the wait. Occasionally hanging in a shower while you shower, or soaking up water, standing the canes in a large vase of water, will keep them hydrated and prevent splitting. We've had ours now for over fifteen years, no issues. Always be sane when using these, as they can cut the flesh if wielded at full force, damage the upper back of the tailbone is struck and hurt like hell even at medium force. If your playing, a mild force can be used, but at least one or two medium can be slipped in, if the bottom is in the right head space. They will take notice of these for sure! Play safe all, and enjoy caning, giving and recieving, there's really nothing else like it! Max
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    Getting a switch

    Does or has anyone ever been switched? Was trimming our cherry tree yesterday, and on a lark, one of the branches I'd cut off was the perfect diameter and length to make a switch, so I did! After trimming off all the buds, I presented it to my Lady to " test" on my backside. She told me to drop the pants and underwear, bending over a bench in our dining room. OMG! right from the first snap, I was jumping and complaining, it hurt incredibly. We have a dragon cane, that's a lot denser and heavier than a regular cane that hurts like a devil, but this simple cherry branch was ten times worse than it! She switched sides after three and snapped three more onto my left cheek. I was jumping from foot to foot, grabbing my ass. She just giggled at me, and I said let me give you one. She said ok, but over her jeans, thinking it wouldnt be very bad. I gave her a snap holding the switch from a about a foot away from her butt and delivered one stroke, that caused her to cry out and grab both her cheeks. She promptly grabbed the rod from me and broke it into three pieces, cussing our Lord! Anyway, my thoughts of getting a switching are now far far away from ever gaining again! The cane see uses on me is sufficient enough to get me groaning and wiggling my butt trying to avoid it! Let us know your thoughts. Max
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    on birching

    Birching can be very erotic, if applied with a light force to start, and slowly build up to harder strokes. This instrument has a culmination effect on the buttocks, it doesn't need to be thrashed hard into the bottom, just a firm brisk swing is all needed. After thirty is or forty swats, the bottom is covered in thin lines and tiny welts from the bumps on the rods. Heat is building in the flesh, and the spankee will by now be wriggling and twisting their hips and bottom, trying to avoid the sting of the branches. The next twenty swats, will get more vocal responses from the recipient. The tops of thighs also should get some attention from the twigs. The flesh will by now be a bright red, and blotchy with tiny welts all over, and be burning constantly. Continuing from here, will probably cause small droplets of blood to appear from the welts breaking. If your brave enough, a full hundred strokes will be felt for the next four or five days. The ensuing heat in the buttocks can become almost like having a heating pad on your bottom, set on high. I've had this experience twice, it stats out very easy to take at first, but slowly builds in intensity, to a very uncomfortable, steady burning. Both were for erotic play, not discipline. In real scenerios of discipline, several bitch rods would be used, with a very strict force. Leaving the buttocks bloody and looking like raw meat. Not for the faint hearted! Cheers, max
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    Write a ten word "spanking story" .

    Please my Lady, be firm and punish my bottom severly!
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    Spanking Therapy on Buzzfeed

    It didn't look like they really got it! Has to be on the bare, laid on briskly at least, for the proper effect. These girls were not in any distress at all. Did they really learn a lesson? Me thinks not. I'm guessing a few days later, their lives reverted back to where it was! Fun anyway!
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    spanking foreplay (taking turns) m/f f/m

    My wife and I have shared spanking now for thirty three years, in the beginning, she was the 'ee as she couldn't bring herself to hurting me! So she got most of the attention, which at the time, we both found very stimulating when in a play scenario. I did thrash her bottom once very severely, when she confessed cheating on me, and her guilt got the better of her. Her ass was black and blue for a month afterwards, as the homemade tawse I built was thick and hard leather. She got seventy or eighty very hard strokes, I didn't get aroused at all, but for her it was kinda the awakining of emotions and arousal of being punished, then forgiven and loved by me. Afterwards I held and kissed and cried with her in my arms. One thing led to another, and as I touched her cunny, I found it sopping wet! We made hot passionate love that day, it was the beginning of a new road we were to travel, the journey continues to this day. That was thirty three years ago. Today she's the DW in our home, a very recent change, that is saving our marriage, and helping renew our love for each other. We have become more sexual and carrying because of it. Funny how life can twist and turn, the way I do now, when over her lap!
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    My Lady's hand

    My Lady’s hand Her small hands can caress and give you deep pleasure Her love a deeply strong commitment, her smile a treasure When her man losses his way and causes her despair There’s only one thing that will clear the stall air Over her knee, naked bottom, the brush and tawse fall Painting her loves’ butt colours, then a nose to the wall His bottom well punished till her mind is quite satisfied That he’s suffered for his misdeeds, his bum is mortified But their love is much stronger as the days go racing by She knows in her heart, one day she may make him cry By her loving punishment on his backside, this is true An act he promoted, and by God she must see it thru For a better, happy marriage this treatment is a must Help make your man love you more and with his trust Submit to his Lady when the reasons and times arrives To the punishment delivered that has changed their lives Her hands can be tender and loving and so sensuous be Until she wields a brush, a tawse or a whippy cane on he!
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    A poem on waiting for punishment

    My Lady’s hand Her small hands can caress and give you deep pleasure Her love a deeply strong commitment, her smile a treasure When her man losses his way and causes her despair There’s only one thing that will clear the stale air Over her knee, naked bottom, the brush and tawse fall Painting her loves’ butt colours, then a nose to the wall His bottom well punished till her mind is quite satisfied That he’s suffered for his misdeeds, his bum is mortified But their love is much stronger as the days go racing by She knows in her heart, one day she may make him cry By her loving punishment on his backside, this is true An act he promoted, and by God she must see it thru For a better, happy marriage this treatment is a must Help make your man love you more and with his trust Submit to his Lady when the reasons and times arrives To the punishment delivered that has changed their lives Her hands can be tender and loving and so sensuous be Until she wields a brush, a tawse or a whippy cane on he! Her small hands can caress and give you deep pleasure Her love a deeply strong commitment, her smile a treasure When her man losses his way and causes her despair There’s only one thing that will clear the stall air Over her knee, naked bottom, the brush and tawse fall Painting her loves’ butt colours, then a nose to the wall His bottom well punished till her mind is quite satisfied That he’s suffered for his misdeeds, his bum is mortified But their love is much stronger as the days go racing by She knows in her heart, one day she may make him cry By her loving punishment on his backside, this is true An act he promoted, and by God she must see it thru For a better, happy marriage this treatment is a must Help make your man love you more and with his trust Submit to his Lady when the reasons and times arrives To the punishment delivered that has changed their lives Her hands can be tender and loving and so sensuous be Until she wields a brush, a tawse or a whippy cane on he! Her small hands can caress and give you deep pleasure Her love a deeply strong commitment, her smile a treasure When her man losses his way and causes her despair There’s only one thing that will clear the stall air Over her knee, naked bottom, the brush and tawse fall Painting her loves’ butt colours, then a nose to the wall His bottom well punished till her mind is quite satisfied That he’s suffered for his misdeeds, his bum is mortified But their love is much stronger as the days go racing by She knows in her heart, one day she may make him cry By her loving punishment on his backside, this is true An act he promoted, and by God she must see it thru For a better, happy marriage this treatment is a must Help make your man love you more and with his trust Submit to his Lady when the reasons and times arrives To the punishment delivered that has changed their lives Her hands can be tender and loving and so sensuous be Until she wields a brush, a tawse or a whippy cane on he! Cheers, max
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    Most difficult role

    I think it depends on your level of severity. If it's play, yes, it's easy for a spankee to get too fast and too hard. If the pain level gets pushed the natural body's reaction is still fight or flight, so tread carefully until you can read your spankee like a gps devise. Follow the right path, and watch for turns. The mood can get destroyed, if your partner gets upset or angry because they are pushed too far. I've found over the years, that my wife can get pissed off at a moderate cane stoke when administered too early in play. When she's aroused, she pleads for it harder, and I've given her cane strokes almost full force when she's in the throes of erupting, she takes easily. Once you get to know the ways the limits change in play it can be a very fulfilling experience for both partners. Discipline on the other hand is harsh right from the start. No safe words here, and one of our rules of extra strokes for complaining and or begging off, trying to shorten the session. These have a purpose, to change behavior and bad habits for the better. My Lady has complete disgression as to the implements used, the force she'll apply and the number of strokes each implement will visit upon my backside. She may send an email, that lays all this out , so I know what's coming, or she'll simply tell me to prepare and how to present myself, naked from waist down, or completely naked etc. Where to be, at what time, things to get prepaired. No idea what's coming. We've settled on three instruments for these lessons, her large hairbrush, a leather lochgelly tawse, or the 3/8" cane. All very painful when sharply delivered to naked flesh. The spanker in both scenerios must be aware of the force being used, even discipline can get brutal if anger on the spankers part creeps into it. I believe they have the biggest responsibility to stay in control, know when to slow or stop, and how forceful they are delivering the stokes.
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    Corner Time Positions?

    Corner time, before and especially after a hard spanking should be a bit humiliating as well as a time to reflect on why you just got punished. Naked red bottom on display, for your disciplinarian to oogle, the pain still throbbing thru your freshly tanned backside. Hands behind back, on head or at sides, absolutely no rubbing allowed. Especially with this eyes watching the colors change from reds to purples and blues as the bruising starts to rise thru the skin. No this is a quiet time of reflection and solitude of mind first and foremost. The spankee may even start crying, as they relive the last twenty minutes of punishment, their soul being cleansed of misdeeds. Fifteen minutes should be a minimum, up to half an hour. Longer and the legs begin to ache, the back possibly, detracting from the main reason for being there in the first place. So please consider this whenever putting your naughty girl or boy in a corner. Thirty minutes can seem like an eternity with a hot bottom and tears streaming. Cheers all, Max
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    What hurts worst on the bare?

    On a wet, naked bottom, they would all hurt. As all spankee know, each implement carries its own unique sting and or thud. A tawse, if it's authentic, will sting and cause deep bruising if wielded with force. This alone can be a very severe punishing instrument. If followed by the cane, it's kinda like putting the icing on the cake, so to speak. The welts caused by the cane on top of a well tawsed bottom, when laid on firmly, will be felt for a few days.
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    Punishment Generator

    https://animeotk.com/punishment.php Hi all, here is a punishment generator I find somewhere on line. It can be used to do exactly what it says and the severity can be adjusted, for more or less strokes by changing the number beside each implement. You can add customized implements as well, so if there's something you use not in the list, you add it. Each time you press the " let the punishment begin" button at the bottom of the page, a new set of numbers, and positions is generated. Anyway, just play around with it, and see if it'll work for you! Cheers, max
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    Aroused During Spankings

    I believe there are people that are born with a predisposition to spanking for whatever reason in the universe. Reincarnation from previous lives? I don't know, I just know and believe I'm one of them, my wife does as well. That we were lovers in the Victorian era as she loves the clothing of that age the most. Others I believe are drawn into it by an event or events in their lives, including being spanked in childhood. No-one here will ever say they were erotic or exciting at that time, because they weren't. My wife had stated that I'm secretly wishing my mother would have spanked me more in my youth. I adamantly disagree, as that's the furthest reason from the truth. The thought of it doesn't excite me at all. But at the hands of my sexy, mature, loving wife? That's very arousing to me. Others may be seeking the feelings of security and love they felt from the parent that punished them, I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist so I'm just speculating. Some may have watched a movie when young, with a spanking scene in it, that got them aroused (me as well). And in today's world, the internet as we all know is loaded with content on the subject, mostly free and accessible to everyone, including kids ( I disagree with how easy anyone can get anything) from the web. There should be more parental, easier ways to block porn from our babies. That's another topic! Wherever, however we found the itch for exploring and experimenting and living the lifestyle, isn't of much importance to me, and I believe most spanko's. I've tried looking back at my past years ago, trying to figure out why? After years of looking at the events I remember when young, I could never definately say, ahhhh that's what did it. I just accept that it excites, enthralls, and can be exhilarating to share with a mate. As long as there's no baggage from the past, just enjoy the present, and don't sweat it! Unless your standing on the right side of a seated lady, who's holding a large wooden hairbrush, about to tan your bottom! That makes me sweat everytime ! Cheers all, Max
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    For lady spankers only

    Hi all you Lady's that spank your man. I was wondering what is the most common misdeed your man commits to earn a discipline spanking or punishment? Disrespect? Lying? Drinking/ driving? Texting while driving? Masturbation? Or any reason you find he needs correction for? Thanks in advance ladies. 👍 Max
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    need a firm mentor

    Hi Urska, Have you found a mentor here yet? If not email me more about yourself and what you think you need to help you quit. I'm an ex smoker So I know first hand all about the hurdles of trying to quit that bad habit. Looking forward to your reply. Max
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