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Needtobebetter last won the day on June 23 2018

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  1. For the record, life is better and I am better.

    1. JeansSmacker


      Great to hear that!!


    2. Accountability


      Very glad to hear that. :)

  2. New year and new opportunities, yet same pressures and same struggles. 

    1. JeansSmacker


      Happy New Year!  May it be an excellent one!

    2. Needtobebetter


      Thanks. You too.

    3. Jenna1220


      I'd say I'm cautiously optimistic :).  

  3. It's nice to have a time of year where there are not as many responsibilities to be taken care of.

  4. It's true that disappointment is a part of life. It's still hard though.

    1. Jenna1220


      Disappointment sucks.  I try not to react immediately and work through it the best I can.  It doesn't always work!

  5. Somehow I think that there is a better way to handle stress than eating cookies.

    1. Jenna1220


      You know, stressed spelled backwards is desserts :).

    2. Dark Rose

      Dark Rose

      I tend 2 lean towards anything chocolate, but pretty much same idea.  When u figure it out, u must share w the rest of us...

    3. dmirk


      Dark chocolate. Takes care of everything and is even reasonably healthy for you.  Helps your moods. That and a good spanking and you’ll be right as rain. 

  6. I guess getting things done last minute is better than not getting them done at all.

    1. AfterGeometry


      I would say, if you're going to wait to the last second, and the tasks get completed in a ramshackle and effortless way, then it wasn't worth doing them at all...and so now they would need to be done properly with the right care and attention.  

      So I think your assumption here is false.  I would re-think it.  

    2. Needtobebetter


      I can see your point, though in this case, last minute did not mean halfhearted.

  7. I'll never forget those who've helped me.

  8. No matter how busy or crazy life is or no matter what else happens, there is always something to be thankful for.

  9. My current strategy of survival: just do the next thing and don't worry about the incredible amount of things that need to be done.

    1. gingerlee


      I'm not so good at that but if I could truly forget steps 2 through 10000, maybe I could finish step 1. I hope it works for you, good planning. 

  10. Saw this today: "What others think about you is none of your business." 

    1. HeartnBottomWarmer


      True. Most people are lost. I certainly do not care what others think!

  11. A five-mile walk on a nice autumn day helps a person feel better.

    1. Stern_Dad_SF


      Words to live by. 

  12. "I am not important" is one of the negative thoughts that frequently run through my mind. This weekend, in particular, I'm having trouble fighting it off.

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    2. Dark Rose

      Dark Rose

      A thought & feeling I battle w almost daily...I'm not important, I dont matter, Do ireally make a diff in peoples lives? Wish I had the answers however I take each day, hour, min, etc as it comes....waiting 4 the feeling 2 subside.

    3. AfterGeometry


      Well in the grand scheme of things, we are not important.  But that shouldn't concern us.  But we are important to our family, our friends, our co-workers, and our community.  To those people we can make a difference. 

    4. Needtobebetter


      Thanks for the comments. I usually operate on the principle that other people/things are more important than me, but once in a while, I get sad and wish I could be considered/thought about/a part of the conversation. (and yes, this was a family thing)

  13. Does another year older automatically mean another year wiser?

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    3. redzonedefense_F


      My birthday is coming up and it seems the older I become, the less I realize I know ... or the more that seems uncertain.

    4. Davyd


      all depends on the birthday spanking:)

  14. Sometimes it seems there's way too much to do each day.

    1. RIspanko


      And too often it is an everyday thing

    2. eJuaq


      Whew, I feel that way as well!!

  15. Don't focus on the parts of the day that didn't go well, focus on the parts that did.

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