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needed2bebetter last won the day on June 23 2018

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  1. Sometimes, in the midst of sad times, good things still come.

  2. No matter what I say, people will only hear what they want to hear, so maybe it's better to remain quiet and let people keep their own opinions and have their own way. After all, who am I that people should care about what I think or how I feel.

    1. Accountability


      Your feelings do matter. Unfortunately, some people are too self absorbed to think about anyone but themselves. 

    2. AfterGeometry


      You need to define "people" very carefully...some people definitely need to hear your feedback, while other people you shouldn't waste your breath on.  

    3. TailsofWoe


      I care about how you think and feel "needed2be...." Try me. You'll see. And things do seem to be getting sadder and sadder on the world. We really need to stick together. More than ever. And I'm an old man, so I've seen a lot.

  3. Is it just me, or do things seem to be getting sadder and sadder in the world?

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    2. Accountability


      It does feel that that way. I was thinking about that last night. Cornertimedanny is right about the news, though. 

    3. needed2bebetter


      I've tried staying away from the news, but I have a need to know what's going on.

    4. Chastener


      • It isn't going to get any better because you don't know about it.  This is a trying time, and I feel --dispiriting at it is--  that I've got to know as much as I can to avoid pure chaos.  But needto, I understand your distress.
  4. When life is sad, but due to the current circumstances, there's no one to help you with it.

    1. geeky_child


      Same.  :’(

  5. It was the Saturday after Thanksgiving two years ago that I received my first in-person adult spanking. Thankful for how things have gone since then.

    1. Jaded


      Nice to hear success stories.  It’s not easy finding a compatible match.  Congrats 

    2. StrictM67


      How lucky to find a partner ..

  6. For the record, life is better and I am better.

    1. JeansSmacker


      Great to hear that!!


    2. Accountability


      Very glad to hear that. :)

  7. New year and new opportunities, yet same pressures and same struggles. 

    1. JeansSmacker


      Happy New Year!  May it be an excellent one!

    2. needed2bebetter


      Thanks. You too.

    3. Jenna1220


      I'd say I'm cautiously optimistic :).  

  8. It's nice to have a time of year where there are not as many responsibilities to be taken care of.

  9. It's true that disappointment is a part of life. It's still hard though.

    1. Jenna1220


      Disappointment sucks.  I try not to react immediately and work through it the best I can.  It doesn't always work!

  10. Somehow I think that there is a better way to handle stress than eating cookies.

    1. Jenna1220


      You know, stressed spelled backwards is desserts :).

    2. Dark Rose

      Dark Rose

      I tend 2 lean towards anything chocolate, but pretty much same idea.  When u figure it out, u must share w the rest of us...

    3. dmirk


      Dark chocolate. Takes care of everything and is even reasonably healthy for you.  Helps your moods. That and a good spanking and you’ll be right as rain. 

  11. I guess getting things done last minute is better than not getting them done at all.

    1. AfterGeometry


      I would say, if you're going to wait to the last second, and the tasks get completed in a ramshackle and effortless way, then it wasn't worth doing them at all...and so now they would need to be done properly with the right care and attention.  

      So I think your assumption here is false.  I would re-think it.  

    2. needed2bebetter


      I can see your point, though in this case, last minute did not mean halfhearted.

  12. I'll never forget those who've helped me.

  13. No matter how busy or crazy life is or no matter what else happens, there is always something to be thankful for.

  14. My current strategy of survival: just do the next thing and don't worry about the incredible amount of things that need to be done.

    1. gingerlee


      I'm not so good at that but if I could truly forget steps 2 through 10000, maybe I could finish step 1. I hope it works for you, good planning. 

  15. Saw this today: "What others think about you is none of your business." 

    1. HeartnBottomWarmer


      True. Most people are lost. I certainly do not care what others think!

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