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It might not be converting someone as much as awakening something that might have been there and just well hidden. I had one woman I dated many years ago. She was spanked when growing up but had not thought about it. After splitting up from a husband that ignored her she was ready for someone much more playful. She enjoyed spanking once she tried it and seemed to look forward to spankings when we got together.

Owning your butt was common when I was younger as in I am going to own your butt when we get home

Great story, enough but not too much detail with an ending that leaves room to ponder what happens next.

Okay even 100

I don't understand it enough to play

Maybe I will take my ball and go home and not play

Trading spankings is a great way for both to let go of stress

I hope things go well. I just come here to chat and not to meet people.

There were no woodsheds in the city but others knowing about a spanking was intense. For us it was more being hauled inside and others knowing what was going to happen. Being taken outside to a shed would have the same effect. Others knowing what was about to happen.

It is always nice to have new people to chat with. Welcome to the site.

We got them until early teens. Then started again when I had girl friends. Was a fun tradition and a way to see if someone was into spanking.

You are not the only one that has always know they were a spanko. I was that same way. I am sure I was born interested in spankings. Welcome to the group.

You know you are a spanko if you hang a bath brush in plain sight in the shower to tease an undercover spankos that come to your house and use the bathroom.

A should be a process and ritual it involves the discussion, getting into position, the spanking and what happens after. I can't say if I believe it is part of the preparation or the punishment but it is an important part of the overall ritual. Not rushing any part of the overall experience is best.

Excellent post Annie. I agree. If someone needs or just likes anything from mild spankings to harder ones no one should say anything. We are all different and should not look down on anyone. Some of us may have reasons for liking or needing what we like. But it might be just who we are and were born this way. Thanks for bringing this up.

I have a friend 10 years older than me making her in her early 70's and she still enjoys spanking play. Maybe not as hard as when younger but still enjoys the role play of it all. Maybe the age spread makes a difference. But actual age should not matter being consenting adults.

Nice to have you here. I mostly spank but like to get one now and then.

If this is a serious question and not fantasy it is really good you did not ask. Asking a non-relative her age would be very different. But asking your own mom would just be strange. We each have our own ideas about strange. Some see any adult spanking as strange. I see it as just something I enjoy. But would leave relatives out of it.

I think aftercare is important but so is before care. I like getting acquainted with a bottom prior to a spanking. Rubbing and talking before is just as important as after.

Spankings help with guilt or stress. Just a good way to take your mind off of anything that has happened recently or well in the past.

I was mostly spanked by hand and sometimes a ping pong paddle. I am sure it got tossed but would like to have it. But I am sure the hard rubber surface with those small hard rubber dots would have dry rotted by now.

The color fades, the sting recedes, but the embarrassment lingerers.