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TheSwitchEffect

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About TheSwitchEffect

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  • Birthday 06/07/1984

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    33
  • Location
    China
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    Spankee

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  1. I'm spanked once a week on Friday nights, and am working (slowly) on getting additional spankings during the week. We'll get there eventually.
  2. I've thought about this for a long, long time. I was spanked by my father around the ages of 4 and 5. I don't remember much other than fearing a spanking. I think that my fear of being spanked led to a fascination with the subject, to the point where I was looking up words like "spanking" in the dictionary when I was 8 or 9. It kind of grew naturally from there. I remember the early days of the internet, back when I was 12 or so (1996, I think). One of the first things I looked up was "spanking," which led me to classic sites such as Wulfram's, Bernie's Spanking Page (anybody rem
  3. Let us know how it goes / how it went. My only addition to what has already been said is that communication is the key. I know that it's hard to talk about your desire to be spanked - it took me years before I could admit it to myself, let alone to my wife. However, you've got to figure out a way to talk about it, and to explain that it's not something awful or strange or anything like that. Trust me - you'll feel a lot better once you build up the courage to talk about it.
  4. I just wanted to put my voice in with the crowd. There is nothing wrong with wanting only spanking and no sex. Don't let anybody tell you anything different. It won't be easy to find somebody who understands that. However, people like us are out there. Don't give up hope! In fact, some of us might prefer being spanked to having sex...
  5. Wow - my parents live about a 15 minute drive away from Jordan Landing. Unfortunately, we're back in China again... so close, yet so far. I'll let you guys know when we're back in the Beehive State again, though it might be a while.
  6. Hi im a spanker any spankee girl in lebanon

    1. TheSwitchEffect

      TheSwitchEffect

      Not that I know of, unfortunately.  However, you might have luck "converting" somebody to spankee status with a lot of good honesty and communication.

  7. There is a very large spanking community in China. I met a very nice girl on a forum once who I played with a few times a few years back. In particular, there are a number of university students who are interested in spanking, both male and female. However, you're not going to crack the community at all without Chinese language skills. Like everything else in China (and I mean EVERYTHING else), the legality of these spanking websites is a grey line. In reality, it depends on the political protection the moderators can get. With that in mind, and assuming that whoever is reading t
  8. I'm not sure if it's strange for a husband to be spanked by his wife or not. Regardless of whether it is weird or not, I sure get spanked, and wouldn't have it any other way.
  9. I agree with Midnight. I've tried the self punishment route, but find that it pales in comparison to the real thing. My recommendation is to talk with your significant other about it. Or, if you don't have a significant other, focus on getting one first. It's not as difficult to find somebody to spank you as you think, and our interest / fetish is nowhere near as rare as you think.
  10. My last one was about two months ago. Waiting for January when we return home to the hairbrush and cane. Just thinking about it gives me that tingling feeling...
  11. My wife did stuff like that. I still think it's gross - and I'm the one who gets spanked. Go figure. ;-) Seriously - she needs to figure out that people are people. Calm down a bit.
  12. Wow - consider me jealous! I wish I had spanko friends in real life. Oh well...
  13. No worries, Gus. This is an exciting world to enter. Take your time and read around a bit. If you're like many of us, you'll discover a side of yourself that you never admitted was there.
  14. My understanding is that there's a pretty active scene in the DC area. We'll end up out there (probably in NoVo) sometime in the next two years or so. Not sure about Richmond, though.
  15. Looks like this thread went from being spanked with crazy implements to more common ones. A few months ago I bought a cane from a shop in the UK through Ebay. Even though it's far more painful than any of the other implements I've felt, I can say for certain that it's my new favorite. There's nothing quite like that painful sting. I'm also a fan of wooden hairbrushes, especially when my wife spanks quickly. But nothing compares to that cane.
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