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Posts posted by FtWorthOTK55

  1. 9 hours ago, BenningPolk said:

    Thanks for the link. It looks like folks in charge are still running scared of the bug. 

    Attendance last year set a record at over 500.  That is about double of past years.  Don't know how many who have signed up as going have actually registered and paid, but it looks like it will be much less than last year.  But bigger is not always better.  I have already made contacts with old friends and new ones who say they want sessions with me this year.  So I expect to have a good party.  

  2. 3 hours ago, LittleEmma said:

    what if someone i know sees me and asks what I'm doing or where I'm going! can they see that i'm not sitting properly?

    Use the old "I slipped getting out of van at work and hurt my hip" excuse.  It will work once.  You just have to come up with another once you have to use it, which will likely be never.  

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  3. If you are into school discipline, "Discipline slips" are easy to create on a computer.  Just think up a violation and write an bried explaination of why the "Student" is being sent to you for punishment.  I actually conduct a role play scenario at one of the major spanking parties each year.  Some of reasons written on these slips for discipline needed are quite creative.   

  4. 19 hours ago, Maryjane said:

    But I hate doing this behind my boyfriend's back and I'm worried if my boyfriend ever found out, he'd see it as cheating.

    Have you thought about the possibility of your butt bruising?  That is a very real possibillity.  While many do not normally bruise from a hand spanking, some do.  The chance of a newbie bruising is definitely increased.  Bottoms not conditioned to being spanked are much more likely to bruise.  While I do not facts or studies to back up what I say, I know it to be true from experience.  And as a spanker, I can tell you that I never know if a girl is going to bruise until bruising starts to appear.  Then it can be much worse a few hours later. 

    I have been where you are at now, only I was on the giving end.  That made it more difficult for my wife to find out I was spanking women and she never found out.  I say I was where you are at because I always felt I could never talk about the need with her.  She did not understand the difference between a few light spanks before sexual play and real butt burning spankings. 

    I feel you really need to evaluate your relationship before moving forward.  Ask yourself if losing your boyfriend is something you are willing to risk.  Then ask yourself if you think you could ever be happy in a relationship when spanking cannot be a part of your life.  My wife passed away 15 years ago.  I loved her dearly but if I ever planned on getting married again, I would not be looking anywhere in the vanilla world unless she knew and was OK with me meeting the spanking need elsewhere.  

  5. 20 hours ago, Justin Jones said:

    Maybe post a link if it's allowed. As I got Texas Association Secondary School Principals... I guess that could be kinky but I'd hate for someone to book a flight for that if it wasn't ..

    There is a website for the Texas All-State Spanking Party too.  I try to post it but it shows my reply to be hidden for some reason.  


  6. 20 hours ago, Justin Jones said:

    Maybe post a link if it's allowed. As I got Texas Association Secondary School Principals... I guess that could be kinky but I'd hate for someone to book a flight for that if it wasn't ..

    I have heard there is a Texas Association of Secondary School Principals that goes by TASSP also.  But for those of who want information about the big spanking party in Dallas, go to https://texasallstatespankingparty.com/.  There is also a group on Fetlife with a list of people who have RSVPed, https://fetlife.com/groups/64128

  7. 11 hours ago, EllaGrace said:

    Good to know! I'm getting switched for the first time this week! *shudder*

    Are you preparring the switch?  If you are, or not, make sure it does not have any rough twigs left on them.  They need to be cut or filed down.  The switch should be as smooth as your bottom!

  8. I have noticed this with others.  Broken skin is a stopping point for me as well.  The problem is some brats are tougher between their ears than their bottoms.  There are only 2 thinks I know that may help.  One is if a scolding can affect your pain tolerance.  The other is maybe try thin, well cleaned, green switches.  The thin ones usually only raise welts instead of damaging the skin.  And they sting on a bare behind and the legs!   

  9. For those who have Paramount +, there are belt spankings in the last 2 episodes of 1923.  In one of the earlier episodes, there are what I would call beatings, not spankings of a young Indian girl and an older nun.  None of these scenes were my favorites.

    My favorite was John Wayne spanking Maureen O'Hara at the end of McClintock.  I have watched it dozens of times.  Stephanie Powers also gets a spanking from Patrick Wayne earlier in the movie.  Not only good spanking scenes but one of the top Comedy Westerns of all time.

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  10. A friend of mine who attends TASSP and our local spanking parties wrote this about how to get play at spanking parties and I thought I would share.

    I wrote this for those spankos who believe they're having a problem getting play, but it works for everyone of every gender.

    Some of the spankos who most often need this information are newbies, shybies, guys who want to get spanked by ladies, guys who want to get spanked by guys, and spankos who want to play with a busy spanko. But as I said, this works for everyone.

    The best way to get play at a spanking party is meet people, make friends, then play with the people and friends you've met at that party and at previous parties.

    To get play at a spanking party, do this:

    • Meet people.
    • Make friends.
    • Don't be pushy.
    • Ask others with interests similar to yours to recommend good play partners.
    • If you see someone playing and you'd like to play with them, ask politely after they're finished.
    • If you find someone who you would like to play with not playing, use that opportunity to introduce yourself and talk with them.

    You may not get a yes the first time you ask. The spanko may have promised play to others or may be tired or resting. Listen to what they say and believe it. If they say "another time," ask at another time.

    Most importantly, treat a potential play partner as a human and give them a chance to get to know you. They don't owe you anything, but they are far more likely to play with you if you treat them with respect, not like a spanking dispenser.

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  11. 3 hours ago, Spanknutt said:

    I always much preferred smaller private parties. Large events can get kind of overwhelming for me.

    We have smaller one night parties in DFW also.  Bigger is not always better but TASSP is when I get to see a few out of town friends.  Some of them I knew from my truck driving days (2008-2010) and few from my first TASSP in 2009.  

  12. I have attended every Texas All-State party since 2009, 3 Lone Star parties and one Crimson Moon.  It is harder for a male Bottom to get play than Tops, unless you are willing to pay the pros.  There are usually several there who offer paid sessions.  It is much easier for Tops to find the naughty ladies.  But there are some ladies there who are not pros and like to spank men.  Many who like to spank other ladies.  Also, there are a few males willing to spank other males.

    There are a few events designed for male Bottoms, but they fill up fast.  Still, if a male Bottom is a good communicator and does not throw off bad vibes, they usually get some play and have a good time.  A lot of people network ahead of time on the party's Fetlife group or on Discord.  I do not know anything about Discord, but if I see someone coming who interests me, I will send them a PM ahead of time.  I also partisipate on some of the threads in the Fetlife group.

  13. There use to be a few brats at spanking parties I attended who liked to put ice down the back of my shirt to earn a spanking.  It was all in fun and they did not have to ask for a spanking.  There normal dress was a top, skirt and thong.  When I could catch them coming up behind me, I would grab as much ice as I could, flip them across my knee and rub the ice on their thong covered butts before spanking them.  

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  14. No NFL today so I watched episode #7 of the series 1923 on Paramont Plus. About 1/3rd of the way through, there was a scene where this rick guy directed one prostitute to spank another prostitute with his belt. She gave her a half hearted smack. He took the belt from her and gave her a hard one. This was on the bare. He handed the belt back to her and she gave her several more hard ones.

  15. 2 hours ago, dmirk said:

    Different things attract. It’s not at all just physical appearance. 

    Very true.  I like the ones who cries real tears.  To me, that means they trust me enough with me to let go of the emotion and they want to experience a hard spanking.  It does not seem to happen very often but sounds of an orgasm from the spanking alone is a hugh compliment.    

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  16. 3 hours ago, frizzy91 said:

    Extremely low

    A physical attraction can definitely add to the pleasure I get from giving a spanking but there are other factors I rate much higher.  First is gender.  Even though I generally prefer a plutonic relationship with my spanking partners, I do not spank males.  Second would be do we "click"?  I do not know exactly how to explain this part except to say "Do we enjoy each other's company."  Third, and definitely ahead of physical attraction, is do I enjoy her reactions to the spankings.  I get little pleasure smacking a girl with my hand or implement, if she can lay there motionless and quite.  I am a bit of a Sadist and I like a girl he is a bit of a Masochist and wants to have her limits pushed a little.

    I live in the Dallas-Fort Worth area and attend spanking parties regularily.  I never turn down any woman who wants to be spanked except for a few cases when I had shoulder problems and the pain was too much for me.  That night, I turned down a couple of very attractive friends who asked me to play.  I had shoulder reconstruction surgery less that a month later.  That was almost 3 years ago and I have not turned down a single play partner once I healed from that.   

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  17. I discipline with different methods but my favorite role is giving old school style paddlings. This can be over clothing as it was when I was in public school, or on the bare bottom like some of you may have received in a private school you attended. I also give parental style over the spankings/paddlings as real punishment or role play.

    I am able to host at my home in the Fort Worth area or travel in the DFW area. Sorry, I am only available to ladies 18 and up and do not do scenes with men.

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