So looking for ideas to try for self spanking. I have this problem where I wear out my arm well before my bottom or back of my thighs start to hurt. However I think this is mostly an angle problem, because I can get really really solid smacks on my inner thighs. I can feel most of the ones there versus almost none of the ones on my bottom/backs of thighs.
I've had some luck with a long wooden dowel on the back of my thighs, but still don't get anything on my bottom.
So what positions and techniques do people use for self spanking with what sized implements?