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  1. This question is regrettably all too important. When I started exploring this oh so many years ago (hint, even before the Macarena!) political or religious world views were of precisely zero relevance when discussing this. But then we learned how to narrowcast opinions (as opposed to broadcast) and instead of the entire world seeing the same events we are able to break up the population into segments. And this creates a sort of feedback loop. When I attended a spanking party in 2000, for example, I couldn't tell, or care, who believed what. It was mostly just fun. If you take any
  2. Theres a saying here: "Never let your wife buy carpeting" because for years you've been telling her that the approximate length of your index finger is 8 inches
  3. I think the big difference is whether or not the activity was professional (as in, exchange of money). Some Pros used and probably still use consent forms. However I dont think this form was ever challenged in court. I am curious if it would ever stand up. I dont think any waiver stands up if the service provider is negligent, whether it is spanking or installing kitchen cabinets.
  4. Thanks for sharing! We should have some sort of sub topic where people try to find hidden images in post spanking marks. Kind of like seeing faces in clouds
  5. Ok, I dont do much nature stuff but if that is what they mean by "scenic" I'll have to start going to them
  6. As for the panty shopping: I wouldn't overthink it. I've gone into stores and bought things with no intent of using them for their original purpose. As far as the toy store: I've been in many. They want you asking those types of questions. If you aren't asking those types of questions they have a really unwelcoming store. In fact the help will probably have plenty of info and share it willingly. They want you walking out with arm loads of stuff so...yeah, it'll be fine, just fine 😁
  7. There are numerous real world problems with this but if we just suspend reality for a moment we still have a problem. When would any actual work get done? Half the organization would be purposely messing up and the other half would scruitinize every detail looking for errors:)
  8. There is a company I used in California that sells bulk rattan. Some craft stores may carry As I recall it is an inexpensive material. Dont get the coils IMO, get a few lbs of straight...maybe 3/8 but ok to experiment 5 lbs is a lot! Probably enough material to cane everyone you know and then some Sandpaper to smooth it out and something to cut to length is all you really need I dont recommend varnish as it may flake and end up where you dont want it For an added touch get some latex tool dip and some thin wire Wrap the wire tightly in a coil at the en
  9. There are tons of creative punishments but here is one I learned a long time ago that is pure hell: A clothespin on the tongue (wooden or plastic) and in between put an alka seltzer tablet Sounds odd but it is very unpleasant. And as far as I can see, mostly harmless assuming you're using a normal clothespin and not some industrial strength item used to hang horse blankets.
  10. Depends on what you mean by acting inappropriately and what type of relationship you are in. Does inappropriate mean something mildly annoying or something more problematic, perhaps even insulting. If your spanker is completely insensitive to your feelings then it's time to decide how to manage the arrangement. And what type of arrangement is it? Are the misdeeds just an excuse to engage in spanking (and there is absolutely nothing at all wrong with that!) or is there a deeper goal? A good spanker is going to be aware of your feelings. Mind you, I said aware. We are all hu
  11. I dont know what product or service your company provides.. but if they spank their customers I'll damn well find a reason to use it! 🤪
  12. The pillows can help a little....they will get the hips up... That is a small strap and quite thin, It stands to reason you'll need to get some speed to make it effective. If she's not comfortable with it yet she can practice on a cushion. Honestly so long as you stay away from sensitive areas you should be good to go. So, I think a brisk pace with some fairly good arm behind it should make it effective
  13. A long time ago...a really really long time ago....when I was a very very very newly minted adult I was in a mall parking lot and I was trying to get a space. A woman not quite old enough to be my mother at the time was first in line for a space that I tried to get, but honestly chickened out because I didn't want to risk either an accident or a longer scene, but I did try and snag the spot she had first dibs on. On exiting the car she got out and yelled "If I was YOUR mother I would....." and that was all she got out as I cut her off with the words "well, you're not!" and drove away.
  14. Not even a close comparison in my mind. A typical pants belt will do in a pinch but isn't designed with the reddening of bottoms in mind. But if you go the belt route first make sure that the business end is free of any ornamentation, buckles, rivets, etc. than can cut the skin. Doubled up works but I think it just makes a more impressive noise. You can also roll it up around your hand so that you have a single "tail" strap. Either lying down or bent over works well. You need a good range of motion and you want to be straight on so you don't lose control. You want to keep those strok
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