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  1. Everyone has different tolerance levels. Even one individual can have a different tolerance level at any given time based on their current mental state, level of arousal, or any number of other factors. As someone who has spanked many females and only a couple males, I think most of the females seem to have a higher tolerance in my experience. There are times I think I probably would be reacting like crazy if I was receiving the same intensity some of them take with much as a whimper. I think it's really all subjective and there's no black and white answer.
  2. In the past decade since I/we have been actively playing with others, I've spanked younger, roughly same aged, and even a few that were 10-15 years older. I've been spanked by younger, same age, and some almost twice my age. For me, I find if you can establish some sort of connection, there's a plethora of workable scenarios and you can have a meaningful interaction with just about any person of any age that's wired in a similar fashion.
  3. I mean....have you ever been to Northern Minnesota? There's literally hundreds of out of the way lake access areas and logging trails where the risk of being discovered is slim to nil. I might be speaking from experience..
  4. We've met a number of people over the years. I don't think I've ever had anyone no show after making plans without at least letting me know something had come up. There have been several that talk the talk but when it comes time to walk the walk so to speak and plan a meeting, they suddenly stop responding. That's just your typical flake behavior. It happens.
  5. I have constant issues with getting the site to load. Frustrating.
  6. Perhaps find a video you like that "checks all the boxes" for you. Share it with him and tell him that's what you're looking for.
  7. Years ago we attended some house parties that were either associated with or loosely associated with the KCspanks group. Portia attended and even hosted some of those parties. Never had any negative interaction with her.
  8. As one half of an early 40s married couple who have provided similar service, I would think you'll soon be overwhelmed with folks looking to take you up on this.
  9. Dommehole.....Ha! I love it! Send that one to Websters.
  10. I have a purpleheart one with holes. It's quite thick and practically a club. I think some are thinner but mine doesn't get much use...plus it doesn't fit in the toy bag.
  11. I think most were just giving you some friendly grief.
  12. Yeah...what's this "paddling over jeans" nonsense all about? 😜
  13. I've thought about moving to Montana...raise me up a crop of dental floss. Raising it up...waxing it down...in a little white box I can sell uptown. Yes...moving to Montana soon..gonna be a dental floss tycoon. 🤣
  14. Here's ours in action being used by my wife on a naughty young lady friend of ours.
  15. The Redecker short bath brush is a near identical item to the famed Vermont Country Store bath brush. It is indeed a fearsome implement. Ours has received lots of use over the years.
  16. Try looking for a solid wood backed clothes brush. https://www.amazon.com/Cokaka-Clothes-Garment-Horsehair-Furniture/dp/B07FYJSPPF?th=1&psc=1
  17. OTK with a smaller wooden paddle is my favorite both as a giver and reciever.
  18. I bought a Hank's Gunner a several months back. I wear it everyday and love it. Previous belts of mine would eventually end up with stretched out holes and would curl. I don't think that's ever going to happen with this thing. It's a heavy duty piece of quality leather. I've used it on a willing participant and it does a fine job of delivering justice.
  19. I tried to send you a message, but get an error saying you can't receive messages. 

  20. I recall a Rippley's Believe It or Not book that had the very thing you describe in one of my middle school classroom libraries in the early 1990s.
  21. In my experience, subtle hints are an exercise is frustration with a vanilla person. A heartfelt conversation which can be a frightening concept, tends to yield better results. Everyone has needs. Your wife might have some that aren't being met. Perhaps an adult conversation between life partners about making sure each other's mental and sexual health needs are being met? I know...it's easier said than done...but if you have a committed and loving relationship already your partner should be more apt to be receptive. Secrets fester and cause stress and strain on a relationship. My opinion is honestly is the best policy. Obviously your experience may be different than mine, but I think you need to be direct with someone who isn't wired this way.
  22. Lots of household items are great but everyone should own a few quality handmade purpose specific implements because you're worth it. Most convenience stores sell Visa gift cards in a wide variety of amounts. It's fairly anonymous online shopping if you want it to be. I own pieces from Compass Rose, Cane-iac, Ouch.UK and others. I've also made my fair share with my jigsaw and sanders. Treat yourself to something nice from one of these great craftspeople now and again. You won't regret an heirloom quality strap or an exotic wood paddle joining your collection in my experience. Just my two cents.
  23. Like I prefer a bottom....bare and darkly roasted.
  24. Late 30s married couple will be visiting the Rochester, MN area for a few days in mid April 2019. Willing to provide safe and sane disciplinary type spanking for younger females or possibly a male. Can host during our stay. Message me if you are interested. Just a normal couple that understands the need. No sex, no games, no flakes. References available.
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