
spike
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spike last won the day on October 8 2018
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Have to agree with californiadreamer on this. Sorry for you, Geometry, that you find this futile. For some of us this is therapy; love; excitement; stress relief, and just helps balance the rigors of every-day life. Were it not for spanking (and maybe one or two other activities), I'd be as self-absorbed with my problems as a tampon. Futility? The only futility with spanking for me is when there are no bottoms around.
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upgrading my favorite quote: "To love someone means to see him as God intended him." (Fyodor Dostoyevsky).
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The group to which I belonged (now defunct) used to have munches about every month, but in different parts of the state. I often attended the ones in my area. Naturally I attended to pursue my interest, but at the very least, it was good to be with like-minded people.
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Spankers: full figured or small and firm?
spike replied to polarbear150's topic in General Spanking Discussion
All sizes for me, thank you. -
Thank you, Lotsa, appreciate the response. Unlike you, although I can and do spank separately from a relationship, I cannot have a serious relationship without spanking. Unable to answer your general consensus question with any certainty. But back to the original question, I was never very good at bringing up the subject.
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I was never very good at this. Early on, I'd bring the subject up as a joke or an innocent passing comment, and see if they took the bait. But once, and one time only, after a few vanilla dates with a woman I really liked I just put it on the line. I remember the conversation like it was yesterday (paraphrasing a little of what I said; word for word what she said): - "I have to tell you something. I have an unusual interest, and really cannot get seriously involved with anyone who doesn't share it." - " What is it?" - " Spanking." - "Is that all?" She was a spa
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I always prefer spanking on the bare, but I'm flexible.
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Adding another seventh grade memory - regarding our French teacher. There's the expression "she had a body that just wouldn't quit", well she had a body that not only just wouldn't quit, but it wouldn't even take five minutes off for a coffee break. She ALWAYS wore skirts as tight as a drum skin, and every time she turned around to erase the blackboard, the undulations of her buttocks could have caused a boy scout to throw away his medals. If I had spent half as much time paying attention to the lessons as I did fantasizing about spanking her, I would probably be living in Paris about now.
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Not local but able to help you on a part-time basis.
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33F4M Looking for DD/Ddlg LTR - Pennsylvania
spike replied to traditionalbrat's topic in Mid Atlantic
After reading your "About Me" bio, I wish I were a little younger. -
33F4M Looking for DD/Ddlg LTR - Pennsylvania
spike replied to traditionalbrat's topic in Mid Atlantic
After reading your "About Me" bio, I wish I were a little younger. -
spike started following Do you have the Spanko Gene?
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Without a doubt.
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Don't know what kind nor anything about implants, which is why I ask. Will deal with manner if someone with the voice of authority tells me it will not cause damage.
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Does anybody know if it's safe to spank someone with butt implants?
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As with many of us, this has been with me since my earliest childhood memories. Growing up and into young adulthood there were a few opportunities to spank some willing bottoms, but I always held back a bit, stopped way too soon, afraid of causing damage, overstepping the (imagined) established parameters, or whatever other guilt ran through my mind. Even during marriage to a vanilla partner, she berated me when I mentioned that spanking was a long held fantasy. So I tried to bury the thoughts, unsuccessfully. So after divorce and many years ago, I discovered the internet... and other sp