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I don't like to speak for anyone but myself, but going to go out on a limb here and say welcome to the site on behalf of everyone.

Not exactly on point, but related: "A woman with the best perfume is one who has none." (Plautus - Roman, about 2400 years ago).

Done this many times; mall parking lots, parked in semi-secluded spots, even a Dunkin Donuts parking lot in the middle of the day. Had to keep stopping to look up to see if anyone was walking by, at which point I'd have to stop spanking - just for a little while. Loved every minute.

In school I thought about this ALL THE TIME (with female teachers and professors), but imagined that I was the spanker. I posted a seventh grade memory about this last year; constantly thinking about spanking my French teacher, Miss Chernukin. She always wore the tightest skirts; I was absolutely fixated with the site of her undulating and glorious buttocks, as she turned around to write on, and erase the blackboard. From early grade school through college, spanking those teachers***, it's amazing that I was able to learn anything. ***Didn't apply to the old ladies, but most of the others

Let's face a hard fact: Am I absorbing the classic works of history and philosophy? Struggling to understand the meaning of existence? Sure, maybe 1 percent of the time. The rest of the time I'm thinking about spanking.

So recently, the nearby tennis courts have been changed to pickle ball courts. Naturally, every time I walk pass I notice the players smacking the balls with those interesting paddles. Can't help wondering if any of the female players are EEs. Wondering how I've gotten through life being able to concentrate on anything else.

The short answer is yes (and your posts are often provocative, Chawsee). My experience regarding this question occurred in my 20s. Locating EEs was not easy at that point. But life is an unusual journey - through a mutual friend, I met a woman, same age, who was a spanko (unbeknown to our mutual friend). I realized this when she just happened to mention to me one day that she played bridge (I have no clue or interest in this) and that her bridge partner spanked her whenever they lost. Well that was all I had to hear. So after some conversation she let me know that she craved disciplinary spank

Of all the spankings I've administered (happily there have been many), I never required counting or a set time. An unnecessary interference with head-space. Of course, just my preference.

Have to agree with californiadreamer on this. Sorry for you, Geometry, that you find this futile. For some of us this is therapy; love; excitement; stress relief, and just helps balance the rigors of every-day life. Were it not for spanking (and maybe one or two other activities), I'd be as self-absorbed with my problems as a tampon. Futility? The only futility with spanking for me is when there are no bottoms around.

upgrading my favorite quote: "To love someone means to see him as God intended him." (Fyodor Dostoyevsky).

The group to which I belonged (now defunct) used to have munches about every month, but in different parts of the state. I often attended the ones in my area. Naturally I attended to pursue my interest, but at the very least, it was good to be with like-minded people.

All sizes for me, thank you.

Thank you, Lotsa, appreciate the response. Unlike you, although I can and do spank separately from a relationship, I cannot have a serious relationship without spanking. Unable to answer your general consensus question with any certainty. But back to the original question, I was never very good at bringing up the subject.

I was never very good at this. Early on, I'd bring the subject up as a joke or an innocent passing comment, and see if they took the bait. But once, and one time only, after a few vanilla dates with a woman I really liked I just put it on the line. I remember the conversation like it was yesterday (paraphrasing a little of what I said; word for word what she said): - "I have to tell you something. I have an unusual interest, and really cannot get seriously involved with anyone who doesn't share it." - " What is it?" - " Spanking." - "Is that all?" She was a spa

I always prefer spanking on the bare, but I'm flexible.